How do you cope with inlaw issues? I need a way to just resolve it in my own mind and move on as it's driving me nuts.. Obvious OH family doesn't like me or want me around.. Ok. Fine.. But holidays and events that I am not invited to.. So if OH wants to go he has to go alone.. Once lo is here OH will not be taking lo to those events that I am not welcome at.. Period!! What have you ladies who have gone through this done to just let it go? Do you just encourage OH to go to his family gatherings without you in a super "happy" way? I've been doing this - it's how I feel but I still feel resentment at the intent to separate OH and I. So I have this resentment toward the situation and how can I just compartmentalize it so it doesn't get in the way of being happy? OR cause arguments between OH and I.. I feel bad saying that I've considered throwing in the towel on OH and I because of this.. I've thought it would just be easier to never have to deal with such rude people again.. What do you ladies do?