Mummy-To-Be

[bumphenders]

I'm Jodie and I'm 20 and this is my first baby. I told my babys father that he was going to be a dad (for the 3rd time) and at first he was really happy, and very excited! And then his Mother had her say (who might I add, i have never met before). She told him I would be just like his ex and cause loads of trouble and not let him see this child - her grandchild! She practically told him I should get rid of my baby! He then told me he can't deal with the stress of everything and that the stress wouldn't be worth it, so he basically said his own child isn't worth it! Fuming wasn't the word for it!

 

[littlekitten8]

Sounds like your better off without him hun. Chin up.

 

[AbbynChloe]

Sounds like your better off without him hun. Chin up.

WSS sounds like he's not worth the time and effort, cut him out and save yourself a whole heap of stress......... maybe he'll come to his sense, but with a mother like that!!

 

[kirst1805]

You really are better off without him if he is going to act like that, may not seem like it now I know. hun.

xxx

 

[teal]

I agree it sounds like better off without him xx

 

[Groovychick]

I agree with the others hun.

 

[OllieB]

I totally agree, you are way better off without him and shame on him for not stepping up to the plate. Some day he will be sorry.

 

[bumphenders]

I just wish he would make then effort. I asked him today if his mam and dad want anything to do with my baby (the only way I can contact his mam and dad is through facebook) and he hasn't bothered replying so the only thing I can do is inbox his mam and dad! At least this was its me showing that I'm trying and I can't have them say that I didn't bother!! Thanks girls! Xxx

 

[MummyJade]

sounds like his mum controls him abit, if he isnt going to step up to the mark and be a dad then you are better off without him... then at least your little one wont have to go through the disappointment of their dad failing to turn up, not caring etc... sadly you cant force someone to care, even though you feel like shaking them and shouting whats wrong with you!

xx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I was 18-19 during my pregnancy, and it was honestly the saddest point in my life,t because I didnt have much support, and at 1st his dad was excited, then wanted nothing to do with us, My son has never even met him, if you ever need to talk to anyone feel free to pm me

 

[lekha]

dont take much stress its better for you and your baby to take decision about only your self as soon as possible.

 

[bumphenders]

I'm finally back on almost speaking terms with him, asked him if his parents want anything to do with the child and he said that it was upto him and he wasnt sure yet...and then When i asked him why they couldnt he said its because he is a k**b... So he is saying whether or not they can see this baby or not...
I want my child to see all of its family, including his family, but he is playing god with this childs life...
I really dont know what to do :/