Babybear85
Mummy to Joshua
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Any advice on how to survive this next year or so lol. So I think we have hit the terrible twos. It's unfortunately coincided with moving house and so I am guessing that's giving hin a little fuel to try and test what he is or isn't allowed to do with it being a new environment too. The thing is he literally is so strong willed nothin seems to work. I just end up shouting at him all day long. I have a 5 month old who's sleeping badly I start my day at 5 when my toddler wants to get up and it just feels so overwhelming. It makes me so sad that I spend most of the day shouting at him I got so cross earlier that I literally picked hin up from the cot and shouted what do you want from me in his face. Iow awful is that. He doesn't just tantrum he makes himself sick I constantly walk around with hin clung to my leg demanding things or crying. I can't brush his teeth without literally pinning hin down and even then he clamps his mouth shut. He won't bath he stands in it and crys and screams. I just dont feel as though I like him much at all anymore I just dont enjoy anything we do because he's so extreme. I havnt tried the naughty step I dont think he would stay there I know some people use the cot for time out but it's so hard to get him to sleep I'm afraid to do that incase he then gets worried to be in it. I just dont know how to make him realise he is the child. I know he will tantrum etc but there's never a way for me to help him without me eventually shouting. He's always been a high needs child was a demanding baby. I dont want hin to hate me for always shouting