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My appointment with FS

peekaboo

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Hi,

Myself and DH have been for our appointment with FS this morning, so I thought I'd share what happened in case anyone else is at the same stage and curious. I'm sure many of you will know about the tests, but thought I'd explain what they are in case anyone doesn't as I didn't.

Basically the FS just asked us some Qs about whether we'd had any previous pregnancies (no), how much I drank, whether I smoked (no) and about my cycles (i.e. if they are regular - yes, usually, and whether or not they were painful, which they aren't usually too bad). She also asked how long we'd been TTC and then said how many months that was, which I'd stopped counting, but she reminded us it was 16 (thanks FS).

She then told us that there are 3 stages to looking into fertility. First is the blood tests to check I'm ovulating which I've already had and which have confirmed OV. Second is SA which DH has had and which came back good. Third is to check why the sperm and eggs aren't meeting.

So, I've got to go back for a transvaginal ultrasound which will look to see if I have any abnormal cycts or lumps and any other abnormalities in the womb/ ovary area. I'm going for this next week.

The test will involve someone inserting a probe into the vagina and seeing the womb/ ovaries on a screen.

I've also got to go for a HSG (this has to be done within the first 10 days of the cycle, but after bleeding has stopped, so its a bit difficult working out when to book it).

This test is an X-ray to check that the fallopian tubes are open and to look at the shape of the uterus. They do the test by inserting a speculum into the vagina and then putting a small tube into the neck of the womb. They then inject a small amount of liquid into the womb and x-ray pictures are then taken of the womb and fallopian tubes. This shows where the liquid is going and whether it is getting stuck anywhere. The FS said she wouldn't try to pretend that this was painless, as it can be quite uncomfortable apparently.

After having both tests I have to go back and see FS for a follow up to discuss results but they can't get me in until January (:growlmad:) which is ridiculous. They reckon if we phone up after I've had both the tests then we'll probably get a cancellation but we've actually mentioned going private after the tests (although dont know much about that so not sure whether its practical or not). But will see how I get on with the tests, and see what they say about getting a cancellation and take it from there.

My AF arrived this morning (:cry:) but they couldn't fit me in for the xray this cycle, so I have to go next cycle. They've worked it out based on my AF arriving in 28 days, and got me in for the week after that, so I just have to hope AF doesn't come early (which I don't think it will). In fact AF was almost two days late this month, which of course got my hopes up a little, but I think in the back of my mind I just knew it was coming. Am kind of at the point now where each month I just think 'why would it happen this month when it hasn't happened before'? So am feeling pretty stressed at the moment and to be honest its getting me down.

So, on another note, I've decided that other than the scan I'm 'taking this month off'. Because I know I have my tests scheduled in I know things are moving forwards, and the fact that I have the tests to think about is enough for me to have on my mind at the moment, so I've decided I'm not going to look what cycle day I'm on and just try to relax this month. My body doesn't seem to cope with stress and worry all that much (I tend to get ill if I've got stuff on my mind) so I am going away with DH for a much needed holiday and am going to try my best to be happy and relaxed this next cycle. I'm going to take EPO and folic acid and obviously we'll still be BDing but I'm not going to come on here if I can help it and not going to read up on stuff that I've already read a thousand times.

Sorry for the immensely long post, but I thought that describing the tests might be helpful for some people. Pity the NHS can't get us back in until next year!! But hopefully after my month of relaxing then having my tests sorted, things might be progressing in the right direction.

:dust: to all. xxx
 
JANUARY !!!

that's ages away... :shock:

I've had the woo-woo ultrasound - its not bad at all. Not sure about the SGG though...
I'm one month behind you for all these tests. Wonder if we'll go private with the prospect of a 5 month wait...

well have a wonderful time away - a bit of de-stressing could be the trick!

Hahahahaha - "oh just relax and it'll happen" :rofl:
 
Its really good that things are moving now but 4 months is a long time to wait. I would say you would get a cancellation within that time.

Good luck and hope all is clear! I'm sure you will tell us what happens.
 
Hi Peekabo

Thanks for your post.

Gosh that is a long wait- I was just wondering which NHS trust you are served by?

I am also going through the same process - I had my vaginal ultrasound (query septate uterus) and HSG last month and have my follow up appt for the results with FS in early September. My OH's sperm is fine.

Best of luck with everything. I would be really interested to compare notes!
 
Hi peekaboo

I had exactly the same experience - a long wait for an appointment after my HSG. However, I did get a cancellation and it was quite easy to do so. Apparently in my hospital that happens quite a lot. People cancel appointments with the fs as they haven't managed to get all of the tests they are going for done in time (possibly due to hospitals being overstretched maybe?).

Also - the HSG didn't hurt me much at all. Apparently it can help fertility in itself - though it didn't work like that for me.

I hope you enjoy your month off - I did that recently and it did me the world of good xx
 
Hi hun,
Thanks for the post, its been useful and helpful to me.
We have now been given a date to see the FS (15th Sept) so im really looking forward to getting things moving!
My doctor asked me to have a trans ultrasound before she would send a referral so im hoping I wont have to go through too many more tests.
Whats the best way to prepare for the FS, will I need to know all my cycles etc?
I hope the HSG goes well for you and you get a little closer to that BFP!!!
 
oooh - Obe - your FS appointment is almost the same time as mine (17th sept)

Not long to wait now!

I'm gonna take all my charts + my little book of symptoms but the first appointment is with the nurse to go through our history + to book the tests etc...
 
Hi hun,
Thanks for the post, its been useful and helpful to me.
We have now been given a date to see the FS (15th Sept) so im really looking forward to getting things moving!
My doctor asked me to have a trans ultrasound before she would send a referral so im hoping I wont have to go through too many more tests.
Whats the best way to prepare for the FS, will I need to know all my cycles etc?
I hope the HSG goes well for you and you get a little closer to that BFP!!!

Hi Obe

I have had a bit of a nightmare with my fs. He seems to have a patient list as long as your arm and needed to go through my file as we talked last time which took ages and was confusing. I am going to go in next time with a single sheet of paper on which I am going to make a chart with headings such as date/cycle length/date of lh surge/tests and results that cycle. That way we will be able to refer back to information easily. I know it sounds a bit anal but honestly I think thats what is needed!! The appointments go so quick and it's hard to remember what you want to ask so I am going to write down some questions to. Good luck with you appointment!
 
Hi hun,
Thanks for the post, its been useful and helpful to me.
We have now been given a date to see the FS (15th Sept) so im really looking forward to getting things moving!
My doctor asked me to have a trans ultrasound before she would send a referral so im hoping I wont have to go through too many more tests.
Whats the best way to prepare for the FS, will I need to know all my cycles etc?
I hope the HSG goes well for you and you get a little closer to that BFP!!!

Hi, in terms of preparing I didn't do anything to be honest, as I don't keep any charts or anything. I always write down the date of AF in my diary but thats pretty much it. The FS didn't ask anything though other than how regular my cycles are, how painful and whether I get any pain after BDing. She said she was just asking in case any of the answers indicated endometriosis, but she didn't think it sounded like it. I was amazed to be honest that she didn't even ask how often we BD!! I though that would be an obvious question to ask, but obviously not!!

I must admit I do still have concerns that I should have asked about - mainly about my lack of EWCM. Part of me things it can't be that vital as they would surely ask about it, but then another part of me thinks they wouldn't consider 'simple' things like that. I will definitely ask about that when I go back for my next appointment.

I've ordered a new lubricant today anyway, called Sasmar Conceive Plus, (I've already tried preseed and zestica!) so hopefully that might help us out.

Right, am off to bed now. Good luck to those of you going for your FS appointments in the next few weeks.

xx
 
Thanks Peekaboo, Silarose and cazd!
I think I will try and go prepared (as best I can!) and hope that we get some help or at least get a little bit closer! Im really hoping we dont have to go through heaps off tests as we know what our problem is.
Cazd - you will have to keep me updated on how your appointment goes with the nurse!
 

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