hopedance
Sam's mum and pregnant
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I just wanted to announce that my little boy Jacob Benjamin was born last tuesday morning, at 34+3 weeks. He was 5lbs 13oz which is huge for that gestation! He's been in the high dependency unit since then until this afternoon when he was moved to the low dependency unit and we're hoping to bring him home by the end of next week.
I had a c-section that was horrendous, and I think I might have post-natal post traumatic stress, I've been having nightmares, panic attacks and flash backs ever since. I'm seeing my GP on wednesday but I'm not sure there's anything she'll be able to do anyway.
It was really traumatic because after they'd stitched me up, they wanted to do an internal exam, and I said no, but they tried to do it anyway. They were pulling off my pyjama bottoms while I clung on to the waist band screaming 'no, stop, get off me', and my husband was trying to make them stop too, but they ignored me. They managed to get my pyjamas down because I was still numb from the epidural and couldn't stop them, but luckily another member of staff intervened and made them stop before they actually examined me. Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this? I actually phoned the police and told them I thought I'd been assaulted, but the police said that a doctor can do what they think is best to me, regardless of whether I consent or not, and they won't do anything about it.
I had a c-section that was horrendous, and I think I might have post-natal post traumatic stress, I've been having nightmares, panic attacks and flash backs ever since. I'm seeing my GP on wednesday but I'm not sure there's anything she'll be able to do anyway.
It was really traumatic because after they'd stitched me up, they wanted to do an internal exam, and I said no, but they tried to do it anyway. They were pulling off my pyjama bottoms while I clung on to the waist band screaming 'no, stop, get off me', and my husband was trying to make them stop too, but they ignored me. They managed to get my pyjamas down because I was still numb from the epidural and couldn't stop them, but luckily another member of staff intervened and made them stop before they actually examined me. Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this? I actually phoned the police and told them I thought I'd been assaulted, but the police said that a doctor can do what they think is best to me, regardless of whether I consent or not, and they won't do anything about it.