lizziedripping
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If anyone can help, or offer advice I'd be soooo grateful. I am at my wits end tonight
I have 4 children. A boy, 8, girl, 6 and twin boys, 5 months. Until they hit 4yrs of age the older two were brilliant sleepers. Down at 8pm, out like a light and awake again at 8am. I am a big believer in routine and establish quite a strict one from the start, which is why the twinnies are already sleeping 12hrs a night
Thing is, the bigger 2 are now a total nightmare. They go up to bed between 8 and 9, and 5 nights out of 7 are still awake at 10.30pm I have just been up again to them and pleaded with them to go to sleep - I was almost in tears
Not only do we feel like we never have a break from the kids, but I worry so much about them coping with school on so little sleep. I have to get them up at 7am, they are knackered and look awful. It makes me so tense every night sitting and waiting for the chattering to stop - creeping up to confirm they have gone to sleep.
I just don't understand. All their friends are asleep by 8pm. My little girl looks exhausted in the evenings, is grumpy and sleepy just before going up, but by the time she hits her bedroom she is wide awake again
I have tried sending them up earlier, but they just lie there awake even longer. We've cut out sugery drinks, cakes or treats past 6pm. I have even stopped my son having his 30mins on the Wii after tea in case this was stimulating his brain too much. Nothing I do works, and it is really spoiling my relationship with them - I spend all evening yelling up the stairs with empty threats.
What can I do? I realise that some kids need less sleep than others, but it is obvious mine aren't getting enough. How can they NOT be tired after being up at 7 and having a busy school day? Aaargh - please help x
I have 4 children. A boy, 8, girl, 6 and twin boys, 5 months. Until they hit 4yrs of age the older two were brilliant sleepers. Down at 8pm, out like a light and awake again at 8am. I am a big believer in routine and establish quite a strict one from the start, which is why the twinnies are already sleeping 12hrs a night
Thing is, the bigger 2 are now a total nightmare. They go up to bed between 8 and 9, and 5 nights out of 7 are still awake at 10.30pm I have just been up again to them and pleaded with them to go to sleep - I was almost in tears
Not only do we feel like we never have a break from the kids, but I worry so much about them coping with school on so little sleep. I have to get them up at 7am, they are knackered and look awful. It makes me so tense every night sitting and waiting for the chattering to stop - creeping up to confirm they have gone to sleep.
I just don't understand. All their friends are asleep by 8pm. My little girl looks exhausted in the evenings, is grumpy and sleepy just before going up, but by the time she hits her bedroom she is wide awake again
I have tried sending them up earlier, but they just lie there awake even longer. We've cut out sugery drinks, cakes or treats past 6pm. I have even stopped my son having his 30mins on the Wii after tea in case this was stimulating his brain too much. Nothing I do works, and it is really spoiling my relationship with them - I spend all evening yelling up the stairs with empty threats.
What can I do? I realise that some kids need less sleep than others, but it is obvious mine aren't getting enough. How can they NOT be tired after being up at 7 and having a busy school day? Aaargh - please help x