laughingduck
Mother of one daughter
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I have a 4 year old daughter and and pregnant with #2. She really really wants a baby sister and we just found out it's a boy. She actually cried she was so disappointed. This will be our last baby so no hope of a future sister for her. I kinda wanted a girl too but had strong boy feelings from the beginning so had time to get used to a boy. I mostly wanted a girl because she did, and because there will be almost 5 years between them so I wanted them to have gender in common at least. Also it would have made use of all her girl clothes I packed away and saved! My OH also had a slight preference for another girl. Anyway, I feel bad because it seems everyone kinda wanted a girl and I dont want this baby to feel unwanted even though I guess he doesnt know what's going on. Just wanted to vent on here. Would love some stories of boys and girls getting along too (especially those with larger age gaps!).