My first baby&a 3 hr labour@home! Dont believe all the scary stories ;0)

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Hi ladies!!

Can you believe it, my baby boy has arrived & a day early :0)

We had planned a home birth & got it too , its been the most relaxing first few days as a family together , I fully recommend a home birth, its been amazing!!

My waters broke at 6.50 on Friday morning with literally a "pop" noise & a gush in bed!! I immediately rang my OH who had only lefft for work ten mins earlier - his phone rang in the bathroom!!!!!!! noooooo! of all days he'd forgotten his phone!!! He' a chippy & works all over London but thankfully Id be listening to him moan about work the few days previous ;0) so remembered who he was working for & rang them to tell him as soon as he'd made the hour trip to london, he was to turn round & come straight back again!! Silly man!!!

In the meantime I started timing my contractions...they were immediately only a few mins apart..i thought perhaps id been timing them wrong?? anyway i txt my mw explaining, she said she'd pop in to measure my blood pressure etc on way to work ao at about 9am ish!....at 9am both her & my OH arrived at the same time...my contractions were painful at this point & i hadnt been able to get my TENS machine to work unfortunately so was a bit frantic to say the least!! The mw checked me over & was shocked to find i was already 7cm dilated!!!! wowza!!! The mw wasnt going anywhere!!!

She got my TENS machine working for me which I have to say did work for me to a point through my contractions... I tried gas & air but this made me feel dizzy so after a couple of contractions I gave up with it & just went with my body..

By 10am I needed to push, I was on a birthing stool in the bathroom, with my OH on the toilet behind me while i pushed on his knees...he was brilliant taking my orders whenever i needed some of my drink etc etc!!

I dont remember the pain at this point...honestly, the feeling of my whole body "seizing up" & preparing to push took over absolutely any other feeling...I was doing this alone, without pain relief....crazy!!

At 10.27 Harry arrived in this world at 8lb 4oz :0) My OH filmed the whole think..it makes me cry now looking at those 4 precious minutes he captured on film....just spectacular.....xxx

By 12.30 Id showered, felt surprisingly "normal"..the mw's had left.... & my OH & I were sat on the sofa with little Harry between us snoring eating our lunch!! It was soooo surreal!!!!! What a crazy few hours it had been!!

As for the following few days..they couldnt have been more relaxing & perfect...its a bit painful sitting down as had to hv stitches... & we struggled to get Harry to latch on to my breast for a few days but with my fabulous mw popping in twice a day to assist we've eventually got there!!

I just love my little man soooooooooooooo much.... I never thought that this utter feeling of love, protection & devotion would flood my body & heart in quite the way it did... we stare at him every day blessed..we feel so lucky to have this healthy, happy little man when so many people around us have had sad instead of happy endngs :0( xxxxx

Good luck to all you ladies you there!! Enjoy your births & your lives as families :0)
 
Wow congrats!! Can my home birth please go like that!!
 
what a lovely endearing story, your oh and mw sound amazing, massive congrats and well done!
 
aww thank you for sharing that. such an amazing story!!!! very lucky u remembered who ur oh was working with too. lol. xx
 
Thank you for sharing that, as this is my first time being pregnant, too, and I want to go natural... but, I'm also scared of the pain. :wacko:

For your pain control, did you just use a TEN machine, or were you doing breathing techniques, too, to keep the pain under control? Did you find dealing with the pain, in the long run, difficult? I'm glad to know the end part, your so focused on getting LO out, that you don't really care about the pain. ;)

Congratulations to you on your birth, though, and being able to have the natural homebirth that you wanted! :D :D
 
aww thank you for sharing that. such an amazing story!!!! very lucky u remembered who ur oh was working with too. lol. xx

I know...although it didnt cross my mind for a second he'd miss it..i was really quite laid back at that point thinking i'll he be born tonight or something?!! Little did i know eh!

OH arrived about 5 minutes after my mw had examined me & told me I was 7cm...for a couple of minutes there I have to admit I did think " oh shit - wheres Daveeeeeeeee???????!" haha!! but knew he'd be here any moment as he'd called of a mates phone when he got my message!!xx

Mad..if there'd been traffic on the M25 that day he may never have been here in time!!!
 
im sat here with tears in my eyes .... thanks for sharing ... xx
 
Thank you for sharing that, as this is my first time being pregnant, too, and I want to go natural... but, I'm also scared of the pain. :wacko:

For your pain control, did you just use a TEN machine, or were you doing breathing techniques, too, to keep the pain under control? Did you find dealing with the pain, in the long run, difficult? I'm glad to know the end part, your so focused on getting LO out, that you don't really care about the pain. ;)

Congratulations to you on your birth, though, and being able to have the natural homebirth that you wanted! :D :D

The pain of the actual birth was ok..honestly..you dont think about it, your body literally takes over at that point...it "burnt" down below which hurt until his head was through.... the contractions got a bit much....i was lucky i was only having contractions for a couple of hours with limited pain control..I dont know how women do that for 24 hours or more! I have sooo much respect for these ladies now!!

I didnt have any breathing techniques to be honest!! the TENS worked for me during contractions to a point...just took the focus off the pain a bit i spose...although not pain "relief" as such..it did help & I would recommend!!

Thanks though hon, Im so pleased everything went to plan too!! I cant wait to have another child! Good luck with your birth too & I hope you get the birth that you want :0) xx
 
A huge congratulations. What a lovely birth story xxxx
 
Wow that was a fast labour!! I hope mine is like that!

Congratulations, he is adorable. x
 
What a lovely birth story and your son is just beautiful Congratulations
 
Wow what a beautiful story thanks for sharing this! Wishing you and your new family all the very best. Congratulations x
 
wow what an amazing story! congrats hun xxx
 
What an amazing birth!! Congratuations!!
And that'll teach your OH to leave his phone at home! :mrgreen:
 
what a perfect labour ! Congratulations on your new arrival
 
Wow what an amazing story - congratulations!

X x x
 
Aw congratulations, the baby is just beautiful. Its made me feel better about birth i mean i know mine probably wont go that smoothly but its nice for someone to be reasurring for once instead of making it there job everyday to make me terrified xx goodluck in the future :)
 

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