DonnaBallona
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhh!!!
They always say wEddings bring out the best and worst in people. Well, with less than 14 weeks to go-its my turn
Firstly-Invitations.
We are getting married September 20th. I gave out invites april 2nd (yes-APRIL!!!) the RSVP date was June 1st.
Several people have not replied either way. One person has replied and said itll just have to be her as her husband cant get time off work-is that ok? I said yes, otherwise if shes more comfortable just come to the evening as she literally wont know anyone but me, the bride. I had no reply. People are supposed to have paid for bedrooms through me. They are at a MASSIVLEY reduced rate, and I am passing the money onto the hotel to make it easier for them. Again, several people asked me to hold bedrooms but havent paid for them
Secondly-the guest list
we can invite 65 people to the day. Its £165 a head so OBVIOUSLY if youre invited you are REALLY special to us. We are paying for this ALL ourselves too-we are having no help.
I have had no reply from my DHs mental uncle. He has a short-term GF who we have never met, (but apparently is engaged to-first Iv heard of it!) and she has made no effort to meet us whenever we're with him. My MIL politely asked us not to invite her to the wedding as she had snubbed this uncle at Xmas (her BF).
This afternoon, Iv had DFs grandad on my case saying 'he's very upset she hasnt been invited' and 'cant understand why' AND 'he wont rsvp until he hears yes or no if he can bring her'
YES, HELLO COMPLETE STRANGER, come to our wedding!!!!!!! I am NOT about to turf one of my oldest friends off the guest list so this woman I have never met can come!!!!
LASTLY-my MIL!!!! (bet you didnt see that one coming!)
I asked her a month ago for a small bit of info about a friend of hers (that I have never met, might I add!) who is coming to the wedding with her husband. I am putting a small one-line quote underneath each persons name on the place card as an ice-breaker of sorts. Some humourous, some just a bit of info about the person. I asked her a MONTH ago about this woman-her oldest friend. She promised me she would 'get onto it'. I have chased her, and chased her, and chased her to NO avail. She still hasnt gotten back to me about it, and when I asked her again today she said she 'would definatly get onto it this week'. I am FURIOUS! so now im going to write something random on it and she'll have to bloody like it.
Oh man, I am SO CROSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what is WRONG with people? am I being a complete bridezilla?
and the question is-would YOU say something to this uncle or leave it be? this woman is NOT going to be coming! xx
They always say wEddings bring out the best and worst in people. Well, with less than 14 weeks to go-its my turn
Firstly-Invitations.
We are getting married September 20th. I gave out invites april 2nd (yes-APRIL!!!) the RSVP date was June 1st.
Several people have not replied either way. One person has replied and said itll just have to be her as her husband cant get time off work-is that ok? I said yes, otherwise if shes more comfortable just come to the evening as she literally wont know anyone but me, the bride. I had no reply. People are supposed to have paid for bedrooms through me. They are at a MASSIVLEY reduced rate, and I am passing the money onto the hotel to make it easier for them. Again, several people asked me to hold bedrooms but havent paid for them
Secondly-the guest list
we can invite 65 people to the day. Its £165 a head so OBVIOUSLY if youre invited you are REALLY special to us. We are paying for this ALL ourselves too-we are having no help.
I have had no reply from my DHs mental uncle. He has a short-term GF who we have never met, (but apparently is engaged to-first Iv heard of it!) and she has made no effort to meet us whenever we're with him. My MIL politely asked us not to invite her to the wedding as she had snubbed this uncle at Xmas (her BF).
This afternoon, Iv had DFs grandad on my case saying 'he's very upset she hasnt been invited' and 'cant understand why' AND 'he wont rsvp until he hears yes or no if he can bring her'
YES, HELLO COMPLETE STRANGER, come to our wedding!!!!!!! I am NOT about to turf one of my oldest friends off the guest list so this woman I have never met can come!!!!
LASTLY-my MIL!!!! (bet you didnt see that one coming!)
I asked her a month ago for a small bit of info about a friend of hers (that I have never met, might I add!) who is coming to the wedding with her husband. I am putting a small one-line quote underneath each persons name on the place card as an ice-breaker of sorts. Some humourous, some just a bit of info about the person. I asked her a MONTH ago about this woman-her oldest friend. She promised me she would 'get onto it'. I have chased her, and chased her, and chased her to NO avail. She still hasnt gotten back to me about it, and when I asked her again today she said she 'would definatly get onto it this week'. I am FURIOUS! so now im going to write something random on it and she'll have to bloody like it.
Oh man, I am SO CROSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what is WRONG with people? am I being a complete bridezilla?
and the question is-would YOU say something to this uncle or leave it be? this woman is NOT going to be coming! xx