Hayleykins05
TTC & Angel Mummy
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Me and my fiancée Dan had been together for six years before we found out we were pregnant 09/05/2011. We were shocked but over the moon!
I went to the doctors a few days previously and had some blood taken and did a urine sample. I was expecting a so I told my fiancée to go to work and not come with and and I'd phone him with the verdict but to both of our surprise, the doctor told me I was expecting. I burst into tears of joy! My OH phoned me and said he'd finished work early and he'd pick me up from the doctors. So I waited for him and when he pulled up he knew just by looking at the huge smile on my face we were pregnant.
The pregnancy went well at first, until I started to get a cramping sensation in my lower abdomen. I phoned my mum to ask her if it was normal and she told me that she had it when she was pregnant with my younger sister and not to worry.
After a few days it wore off and I was fine, we were busy planning to change our spare bedroom to a nursery and talking about baby names and genuinely being so happy.
I woke up the morning of 23/05/2011. With severe cramps I got out of bed (sorry TMI coming up) and went to the toilet and wiped and found bright red blood on the tissue. I freaked out and shouted for Dan immediately we raced to the hospital I rang my mum and she said she'd come to the hospital to support me as I was a mess.
We waited for hours for a scan but I knew that I had lost the baby. When we finally got an ultrasound it revealed that I had indeed lost the baby.
I can't help but think that if I had of gone to the hospital when I had cramps to start with it might've never happened. We've come to terms with our loss and always have a memorial on 4th January which would've been my due date and on 23rd May which is when I miscarried.
Dan and I feel ready now to start TTC again, we've just moved into our own home and feel now is a good time. We'd love our baby to be there for our wedding but if it doesn't happen before I definitely would love a baby in the near future x
I went to the doctors a few days previously and had some blood taken and did a urine sample. I was expecting a so I told my fiancée to go to work and not come with and and I'd phone him with the verdict but to both of our surprise, the doctor told me I was expecting. I burst into tears of joy! My OH phoned me and said he'd finished work early and he'd pick me up from the doctors. So I waited for him and when he pulled up he knew just by looking at the huge smile on my face we were pregnant.
The pregnancy went well at first, until I started to get a cramping sensation in my lower abdomen. I phoned my mum to ask her if it was normal and she told me that she had it when she was pregnant with my younger sister and not to worry.
After a few days it wore off and I was fine, we were busy planning to change our spare bedroom to a nursery and talking about baby names and genuinely being so happy.
I woke up the morning of 23/05/2011. With severe cramps I got out of bed (sorry TMI coming up) and went to the toilet and wiped and found bright red blood on the tissue. I freaked out and shouted for Dan immediately we raced to the hospital I rang my mum and she said she'd come to the hospital to support me as I was a mess.
We waited for hours for a scan but I knew that I had lost the baby. When we finally got an ultrasound it revealed that I had indeed lost the baby.
I can't help but think that if I had of gone to the hospital when I had cramps to start with it might've never happened. We've come to terms with our loss and always have a memorial on 4th January which would've been my due date and on 23rd May which is when I miscarried.
Dan and I feel ready now to start TTC again, we've just moved into our own home and feel now is a good time. We'd love our baby to be there for our wedding but if it doesn't happen before I definitely would love a baby in the near future x