BrandiCanucks
Mommy of 4, WTT
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I had a 3D ultrasound today. I told my mom not to come because my stepdad has been really sick all week and I don't want to risk her bringing it and passing it on if it's just waiting in her body, but I offered to have it set up so that she could watch a live broadcasting over the internet. I didn't have my phone in my hands but it rang at least 13 times, I had 17 texts from her, and the receptionist knocked on the door to tell the tech that the broadcast wasn't going through. My mother actually tracked down the place to tell them to broadcast it.
As if that wasn't bad enough, I got home and I posted the photos of my daughter from the session today.
Now before I continue, a little backstory. My mother is the type that when she's wishing someone well, she makes it all about her. For example, "Happy Birthday to MY precious, handsome, amazing little boy, Isaiah! Grandma loves you more than anything and anyone!"
I almost lost my last baby during labour due to a cord prolapse. He needed resuscitation, and spent time in NICU. I had to be put to sleep. When I woke up, I didn't know if he had made it and they wheeled me past him but said I couldn't hold him or anything until he was stabilized. I ended up falling back to sleep and when I woke up and was more aware, I went to post the only picture I managed to get through my grogginess, and tell the birth story...only to find out that my mother had already posted his photo, his full name, birth time, weight, length, AND what happened during the labour.
Strangers on Facebook had already seen photos of my son before I even knew if he had survived; before I had even woken up. They saw him before I did.
So I've been going back and forth debating on whether or not I'm going to let her in at the birth.
Tonight, not even twenty minutes after I made the album of the 3D ultrasound, my mother went through the album, picked her favourite picture, and posted it to her OWN profile (without asking me first or even saying she was going to). But not only did she post the picture, she actually made the post implying that my daughter, the baby I'm carrying is HERS and has been accepting congratulations as if she is the one pregnant.
Am I right to be upset here? Because this just tells me she won't hesitate to make a birth announcement and post photos again before I do and before I've had time to bond with my daughter.
I am FURIOUS!!!!
As if that wasn't bad enough, I got home and I posted the photos of my daughter from the session today.
Now before I continue, a little backstory. My mother is the type that when she's wishing someone well, she makes it all about her. For example, "Happy Birthday to MY precious, handsome, amazing little boy, Isaiah! Grandma loves you more than anything and anyone!"
I almost lost my last baby during labour due to a cord prolapse. He needed resuscitation, and spent time in NICU. I had to be put to sleep. When I woke up, I didn't know if he had made it and they wheeled me past him but said I couldn't hold him or anything until he was stabilized. I ended up falling back to sleep and when I woke up and was more aware, I went to post the only picture I managed to get through my grogginess, and tell the birth story...only to find out that my mother had already posted his photo, his full name, birth time, weight, length, AND what happened during the labour.
Strangers on Facebook had already seen photos of my son before I even knew if he had survived; before I had even woken up. They saw him before I did.
So I've been going back and forth debating on whether or not I'm going to let her in at the birth.
Tonight, not even twenty minutes after I made the album of the 3D ultrasound, my mother went through the album, picked her favourite picture, and posted it to her OWN profile (without asking me first or even saying she was going to). But not only did she post the picture, she actually made the post implying that my daughter, the baby I'm carrying is HERS and has been accepting congratulations as if she is the one pregnant.
Am I right to be upset here? Because this just tells me she won't hesitate to make a birth announcement and post photos again before I do and before I've had time to bond with my daughter.
I am FURIOUS!!!!