greeneyes27
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I got married in 2015 to my DH and we are expecting our first DD in July. I have a 6 year old DS from a previous relationship and now I'm wondering about names.
When I was married I kept my own surname as I wanted to have the same surname as my DS, however our little girl will have DH's surname and now I feel really torn. I'd love to change my name and us all be a family but then my DS may feel like I abandoned him and he won't fit in. I don't want to change his name as I think it's very important to him and would be unsettling so I'm confused!!
One thought I did have was hyphenating my last name so I have both surnames but is that just making it all too complicated?
What are your thoughts?
When I was married I kept my own surname as I wanted to have the same surname as my DS, however our little girl will have DH's surname and now I feel really torn. I'd love to change my name and us all be a family but then my DS may feel like I abandoned him and he won't fit in. I don't want to change his name as I think it's very important to him and would be unsettling so I'm confused!!
One thought I did have was hyphenating my last name so I have both surnames but is that just making it all too complicated?
What are your thoughts?