LadySlipper
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My grandma had an older brother who died suddenly as a child and her parents tried for another baby just to replace him...but instead they had a girl, my grandma....her whole life she was told she was a disappointment because she wasnt the boy they wanted to replace. This baby isnt a replacement, he is his own person. Enjoy and be happy for him. Naming after your miscarriages makes him sound unimportant and unwanted. I think its horrible to do that.
Not sure why you are taking the op request for names meaning rainbow so personally. It isn't helpful to slam someone you don't know over something so silly. It's her personal choice. I have seen sillier name meanings or requests over the years. Instead of ripping the person apart over their choice, I held my tongue so to speak. It isn't my place to judge someone or my job to make them feel bad. So

How your grandma was treated it sounds like it had nothing to do with a name. They just really wanted a boy to replace the son who was lost. Using your logic then they shouldn't have had another child at all to try to replace the deceased son. As any following that loss would no longer be their own person and instead would be forever compared to the one they lost.
My baby will have my deceased Grandpas name as his or her middle name. Not because I want to replace my Grandpa. But to honor the man I was real close to and miss dearly. Hope that doesn't offend you.
Anyway I also tried to think of rainbow names for my baby. Not satisfied with what I found I went the religious route instead. My personal choice. So I am no help in that regard op.
