HopefulEm
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So, I'm having an inner conflict. My husband and I are trying to pick out names. It would mean a lot to me if our child's middle name was after someone in the family they could look up to.
We already have a girl name picked out with a middle name from my side, so I told DH to pick someone from his side for the boy name. Well, he picked his dad which makes sense since we both look up to him as a great man. Problem is I don't like his dad's first or middle names!
I feel bad telling my husband we can't name the baby after his dad for that reason, plus I like the idea of naming the baby after him. I know DH's dad has another middle name (I think his Christian name) but DH doesn't remember it, and my FIL doesn't tend to use it so I don't know if it would carry the same significance. (Plus we have no way to find it out without asking directly which might give us away before we're even committed.)
Any ideas? I'm not sure if I should just try to bear with it since it's only the middle name, tell DH to pick someone else, try to get FIL's other name, or maybe try to pick a name that's inspired somehow by FIL's name? Or perhaps something completely different?
We already have a girl name picked out with a middle name from my side, so I told DH to pick someone from his side for the boy name. Well, he picked his dad which makes sense since we both look up to him as a great man. Problem is I don't like his dad's first or middle names!
I feel bad telling my husband we can't name the baby after his dad for that reason, plus I like the idea of naming the baby after him. I know DH's dad has another middle name (I think his Christian name) but DH doesn't remember it, and my FIL doesn't tend to use it so I don't know if it would carry the same significance. (Plus we have no way to find it out without asking directly which might give us away before we're even committed.)
Any ideas? I'm not sure if I should just try to bear with it since it's only the middle name, tell DH to pick someone else, try to get FIL's other name, or maybe try to pick a name that's inspired somehow by FIL's name? Or perhaps something completely different?