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hey all tomorrow ill be 8 week 4 day pregnent and thats when i lost my angel in my last pregnacey :cry: iam so scared no one nose iam pregnet because iam to scared to say anything because of last time i no i shouldnt worrie and shouldnt think about it but trust me its so hard not to iam so scared sorry for going on just needed to talk xxxc
 
It's really hard. I have reached that point today at 11 + 2 and OH is away so on my own and feeling really anxious. Can't talk to anyone about how i feel today as no one at work knows. I think you just need to try to remember that this is a different pregnancy and there is no reason for it to go wrong again today. My thoughts and best wishes are with you, i know how hard this is.
 
It's OK to feel this way after what you've been through but if you've got no cramping, no bleeding and not in pain then the chances are baby is doing fine. is there anything you can do to occupy yourself so you're not constantly thining about it? Even just for an hour.

HoolenT, I know nothing beats your OH for support but there are plenty of us on here on have been through the same thing so we can help each other through these tough moments.

Just keep taking one day at a time and sooner than yu think you'll be into the 2nd trimester
 
hey ladies and thank u ive tryed my best but it feels like today is never gonna end lol hope ur both ok iam so scared and hoolen here if u feel like chattin here or msn xxx
 
Hiya love, I really can empathise with you :hugs: Tomorrow I will be 21 weeks and thats when I lost my daughter :cry: Not too sure how I am going to get through it to be honest. My thoughts are with you , stay strong xxxx
 
oh sarah if u need to talk iam here i just think today is a longgggggggggggggg day xxxx
 
I almost wish I could just sleep for the entire day! Just to get it out of the way. Doesnt help that my OH is off for the day with his mates, I thought it was just for the evening but no, the whole day in the snooker hall :( He has been so amazing throughout the pregnancy but of all the days I could really use him here, he wont be.
I feel so selfish but I need him ...I guess it is just bad timing all round. The only thing is that I know myself so well and I just KNOW I am going to end up resenting him for not being here tomorrow. It will no doubt come out in an argument at some point :cry: xx
 
I almost wish I could just sleep for the entire day! Just to get it out of the way. Doesnt help that my OH is off for the day with his mates, I thought it was just for the evening but no, the whole day in the snooker hall :( He has been so amazing throughout the pregnancy but of all the days I could really use him here, he wont be.
I feel so selfish but I need him ...I guess it is just bad timing all round. The only thing is that I know myself so well and I just KNOW I am going to end up resenting him for not being here tomorrow. It will no doubt come out in an argument at some point :cry: xx

oh sarah i no the feeling its been the longest day ever today but i got there not going to lie to you it was hard and i even cried a lil ok a lot but hey iam still here no pain and still in the game so here i am hopeing for a gd 7 mounth and u dont worry to hun ur gonna be all right and if u need me i can give u my msn ??
 
Hi Mummywants,

how did the day go? sorry didn't get a chance to log on yesterday to find out how you were. I sure am glad that milestone is over, feeling quite positive again now.
 
Hi Mummywants,

how did the day go? sorry didn't get a chance to log on yesterday to find out how you were. I sure am glad that milestone is over, feeling quite positive again now.

it wasnt to bad hun long very long lol but ok how are u xxxx
 
It wasn't too bad in the end, just tried to stay positive. Have reached 12 weeks today so a bit happier but still v worried about the scan next monday, really scared that they will find another mm/c. It is irational really as this one is totally different, this time i have felt sick whereas last time i didn't feel sick at all and i am already in maternity trousers whereas last time i wasn't and i still have sore boobs!! so i am hoping that these are all good signs. We can never tell though can we until we get to the scan.....gonna wait to tell everyone when i have the picture....
 
It wasn't too bad in the end, just tried to stay positive. Have reached 12 weeks today so a bit happier but still v worried about the scan next monday, really scared that they will find another mm/c. It is irational really as this one is totally different, this time i have felt sick whereas last time i didn't feel sick at all and i am already in maternity trousers whereas last time i wasn't and i still have sore boobs!! so i am hoping that these are all good signs. We can never tell though can we until we get to the scan.....gonna wait to tell everyone when i have the picture....

oh hunni ull be fine hope everything gose well 4 u xx
 
On Monday I am getting my first blood tests and that is the day I lost my last pregnancy, a week later is when I lost the next one so I still have a way to go to be passed this scary stage. i am praying that the blood work will come back with strong numbers so I am less anxious.
 
On Monday I am getting my first blood tests and that is the day I lost my last pregnancy, a week later is when I lost the next one so I still have a way to go to be passed this scary stage. i am praying that the blood work will come back with strong numbers so I am less anxious.

hey hun how did it g0
 

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