Hope your feeling abit better hun, i know its hard at the minute but once your little man is here you wont worry about any of these things..
The right person will come along in its own time but in the meantime concentrate on bubs he is all you need right now. Im sure he will be very loved by everyone and no matter what youve gone through with your own dad, your son is going to be very loved and if Adam cant see what hes got then hes abit silly to be honest! But thats lads for ya xxxx