Need a Hug

[MichelleW]

I've been trying to conceive for 21 months now and had two miscarriages, been diagnosed unexplained infertility which really sucks cause nothing wrong with either of us and still nothing!

We concentrated on doing everything right this month and was really convinced this was it, even got the faintest of positives yesterday and was a day late, which I never am as I chart all the time and my luteal phase every month is 11 days.

I have started bleeding tonight, so convinced this was just a chemical and just want to cry my eyes out, think hubby was getting his hopes up too, he never shows it to me but I just know he is disappointed and think its just my crappy body just want hold onto pregnancies.

Sorry for the feeling sorry for myself but I needed to vent and needed a cuddle

 

[kaye]

awww sending you massive big hugs xxx

sorry your having such a terrible time & sorry for your losses.

TTC really does suck. I have been trying 2 years and its awful.

Keep the faith, our time will come xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[MichelleW]

Thanks Kaye,

It is really hard, I crash every month when AF turns up but in a day or two I will be back on the positivty path.

Fingers crossed for us both and lots of baby dust for you honey xxxx

 

[kaye]

I know what you mean, wish the witch would do one!

I had a terrible week last week, spent most of it crying. Just like you said, after a day or two we get back up and try again.

The best things are worth waiting for

lots of babdydust to you and hope your not waiting too much longer xx

 

[BBgirl]

I'm sending you both a hug from the heart. I've had 2 miscarriages in the past 3 years, then unexplained infertility for a year, then my OH and I split over it all.

 

[4567hgfd]

I don't even know you and I'm sending a huge hug. There's nothing like this yearning for a baby. We've been 'trying' for 2 nearly two years and nothing. I can't imagine how much worse it would be if we'd had the raised hopes and grief that you've experienced. BIG HUG xxx

 

[StorkStalker]

Big hug going your way.. I know how it's needed sometimes.. I understand and feel your pain.. Good luck this cycle.. Never lose hope.. They say it's never darker than when the sun is about to come out.. Hug!

 

[Armywife84]

My condolences for your losses.

BBGirl-My condolences for your losses as well.

 

[MichelleW]

Thanks very much guys for all your replies, means a lot.

I can't believe I get suckered in every month lol, think I should know better by now.

My husband caught me crying last night, dont like him seeing me upset over this, but he is so wonderful, sat and hugged me all night and kept saying positive things to me, he really is the love of my life

 

[stellargaze]

Sending you lots of hope! And never think that this is your fault! a lot of miscarriages happen because of defects in the dna-- it could just as easily be his dna as yours. Do you know your blood types? My sister's SIL miscarried a few times and it turned out to be because she is 0- negative blood type ( I think) and he was a positive blood type. Something about the body rejecting the positive anti-bodies in the fetus. But now she is well on her way to being a mum!

We all know how hard it is. Let's hope it's our turns next!

 

[Coleey]

So sorry for your losses hun. Sending you lots of
Keep your chin up, sending lots of baby dust your way xxxx

 

[cooch]

I'm sorry you have had to go through 2 m/c. I'm also sorry that even though you have been through that the NHS are saying it is unexplained! I would look into m/c and low progesterone, as that can cause m/c. But with the NHS they accept just about any level of it and its all down to money.

Me and another couple of girls on here follow the Napro Technology programme. It might be worth your while looking into it, as they investigate your body- what's working and what's not

 

[blueeyedgirl1]

Big, huge hug!!

 

[Damita]

 

[skye2010]

Don't give up hon you will get there and have your sticky bb in the end xx

 

[gemini87]

didnt want to r n r. heres a huge hug 2 u. i no it is easy to say bt u wil get there + get ur sticky bean xx

 

[MichelleW]

I'm sorry you have had to go through 2 m/c. I'm also sorry that even though you have been through that the NHS are saying it is unexplained! I would look into m/c and low progesterone, as that can cause m/c. But with the NHS they accept just about any level of it and its all down to money.

Me and another couple of girls on here follow the Napro Technology programme. It might be worth your while looking into it, as they investigate your body- what's working and what's not

Hi Cooch, me and my husband have had tests done and they all came back fine!.

The only problem I have is I thought your progesterone level was supposed to be tested 7dpo, the first time they did the check was a day 21 but I had only ovulated on day 18 so was only 3dpo and my level was 29.5, which i was told was borderline it should be over 30 but its still ok and nothing to worry about

They then got me to do a day 23 a couple of cycles later but again i only had ovulated on day 20 so was 3dpo again and my result was 30, which they again said is on the border but is still fine If it was taken at 7dpo surely it would be more. I am going to wait until I ovulate this cycle and book an appointment for my 7dpo with the nurse and get my blood done again as I'm not happy.

Do you know much about what the levels should be as I have a print out of my fsh lh estrogen and progesterone etc!

xx