Hi My partner of 8 years says he doesn't want to be a dad, I am 17 weeks pregnant and I made my choice a long time ago that no matter what I am keeping the baby.
Any way I have suggested counselling but I'm not sure if this is going to help or not.
He has said some very nasty and hurtful things since we found out about the baby and I'm not sure if I can forget these things or not.
Its all such a mess I am really confused and part of me thinks that he is only agreeing to counselling so as to be seen as going through the motions of trying but not actually wanting to try and make it work.
OR are my emotions making me look at the negatives too much and not being able to see the wood from the trees.
Feeling so confused I don't want to make a rash decision that I might regret which is why I have let this go on so long but its killing me all this uncertainty and nastiness.
Help
Any way I have suggested counselling but I'm not sure if this is going to help or not.
He has said some very nasty and hurtful things since we found out about the baby and I'm not sure if I can forget these things or not.
Its all such a mess I am really confused and part of me thinks that he is only agreeing to counselling so as to be seen as going through the motions of trying but not actually wanting to try and make it work.
OR are my emotions making me look at the negatives too much and not being able to see the wood from the trees.
Feeling so confused I don't want to make a rash decision that I might regret which is why I have let this go on so long but its killing me all this uncertainty and nastiness.
Help