Need clomid but doc says no

[nicky26]

Hi well I'm back again!!

My quick story:
I have two children (one of either gender) from a previous relationship. The. With my hubby we had 5 early miscarriages, 1 ectopic, another early miscarriage. We had every test going and nothing wrong with wait her of us. Then we tried again , we're trying for 18 months when we were told we had secondary unknown infertility and I was given cyclogest just incase I was to fall pregnant but we were advised we would need ivf...... Strangely two weeks later we found out we were pregnant naturally!! Every thing went amazing (bar sickness) we got past the dreaded twelve week marker and moved house bought ALL our baby things found out a 16 weeks we were having a girl!!! Everyone was soo extatic I was elated.
We went for our 20 week scan and were told baby had reduced fluid and promonate kidneys!!
Long story very short (as it's too painful to type) we had to deliver our sleeping angel at 23 weeks to the dAy and she went straight into the arms of the angels!!

We will NEVER EVER forget our perfect little princess but we want to try again and have started having unprotected sex (on day 7 after delivery). I will do all I can. I am trying to convince my specialist and go to give me cyclogest and clomid but I'm being told that there is no need for clomid but I will do anything to get pregnant again now. .....I know it may sound quick to some but we all have different copying methods and my daughter will not be replaced .....we have her funeral in 9 days!!

Any help advice etc etc would be great!!

X

 

[Emmi]

Hi well I'm back again!!

My quick story:
I have two children (one of either gender) from a previous relationship. The. With my hubby we had 5 early miscarriages, 1 ectopic, another early miscarriage. We had every test going and nothing wrong with wait her of us. Then we tried again , we're trying for 18 months when we were told we had secondary unknown infertility and I was given cyclogest just incase I was to fall pregnant but we were advised we would need ivf...... Strangely two weeks later we found out we were pregnant naturally!! Every thing went amazing (bar sickness) we got past the dreaded twelve week marker and moved house bought ALL our baby things found out a 16 weeks we were having a girl!!! Everyone was soo extatic I was elated.
We went for our 20 week scan and were told baby had reduced fluid and promonate kidneys!!
Long story very short (as it's too painful to type) we had to deliver our sleeping angel at 23 weeks to the dAy and she went straight into the arms of the angels!!

We will NEVER EVER forget our perfect little princess but we want to try again and have started having unprotected sex (on day 7 after delivery). I will do all I can. I am trying to convince my specialist and go to give me cyclogest and clomid but I'm being told that there is no need for clomid but I will do anything to get pregnant again now. .....I know it may sound quick to some but we all have different copying methods and my daughter will not be replaced .....we have her funeral in 9 days!!

Any help advice etc etc would be great!!

X

So so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart broke for you.

Has the doctor explained why he won't give you clomid??? I am sure there must be a reason?? Clomid isn't for everyone.

x