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Leo and Jamie
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well.... OH is 32 and acts about 12. He never does things for Leo, if he needs changing he wont do it, if he has a tantrum OH just walks off and lets me deal with it. His idea of watching LO is put laptop on and let LO do what he likes. (amount of times LO has hurt himself and OH hasnt prevented it!)
I have brought all the house items (cooker,bed,fridge,washing machine, all Leos things, all the new babies things) If I ask his opinion on somethnig he just says its up to me. He gets £1000 a month and has about £270 left over after rent and car and payments for his 10 yr old son. I only get Child tax credits and child benefit and I have to give him over half for the bills even though he could afford the extra £70. I cant fit into most my clothes now but cant afford to buy any mat clothes or anything and I asked if I could stop giving him £70 a month and he said no cos august he has to buy something for the car. He wont even buy me dinner for £15 for our 4 yr anniversary in august but he'll drive 30 miles to get a new fan for his car
Iv told him im not happy and I know id be happier without worrying about him and how much money he DOESNT have. He always moans wer screwed for money even though he has that £270 each month. He wastes it and I scrimp and buy the cheapest of everything for us.
He wont leave as he has nowhere to go and neither have I. I have my midwife here, drs, I dont drive and I have purchased and made decisions for this house and then amde to feel guilty at asking him to buy a dinner set for £5 today
I cant just put the chain on the door when hes out as he broke it off last time I did that. I dont want to leave as I have everything here, and Iv paid for nearly everything we have. His only possesions are the sofa, tv and ps3 Tv hes not even paid for yet and cant afford to pay for
Is there any way I can make him stay out the house? Or is there anywhere i can go if I had to leave?
I have brought all the house items (cooker,bed,fridge,washing machine, all Leos things, all the new babies things) If I ask his opinion on somethnig he just says its up to me. He gets £1000 a month and has about £270 left over after rent and car and payments for his 10 yr old son. I only get Child tax credits and child benefit and I have to give him over half for the bills even though he could afford the extra £70. I cant fit into most my clothes now but cant afford to buy any mat clothes or anything and I asked if I could stop giving him £70 a month and he said no cos august he has to buy something for the car. He wont even buy me dinner for £15 for our 4 yr anniversary in august but he'll drive 30 miles to get a new fan for his car
Iv told him im not happy and I know id be happier without worrying about him and how much money he DOESNT have. He always moans wer screwed for money even though he has that £270 each month. He wastes it and I scrimp and buy the cheapest of everything for us.
He wont leave as he has nowhere to go and neither have I. I have my midwife here, drs, I dont drive and I have purchased and made decisions for this house and then amde to feel guilty at asking him to buy a dinner set for £5 today
I cant just put the chain on the door when hes out as he broke it off last time I did that. I dont want to leave as I have everything here, and Iv paid for nearly everything we have. His only possesions are the sofa, tv and ps3 Tv hes not even paid for yet and cant afford to pay for
Is there any way I can make him stay out the house? Or is there anywhere i can go if I had to leave?