I need some advice if you don't mind ladies, my best friend text me on Wednesday and said her first cycle of IVF has failed. I feel totally heartbroken for her and text back to say I'm so sorry. I've not text her since as I have an 11 month old son and am 36 weeks pregnant so don't want to upset her further. What do I say to her? I want to be positive but don't want her to think I'm shrugging it off like "oh well there's always next time" sort of thing. I'm so gutted for her I can't imagine how hard it must be.