need some advice

[18NPregnant]

i am 18 and 14 weeks pregnant with my first. this post is not so much bout the baby more about other things that i need some support with.

i need some support and i am not finding it from friends and family. so my boyfriend and i broke up on monday and not only am i having a hard time with it i am having a hard time with him moving on. i have never felt so alone in my whole life and i feel like im alone with nobody just me and my baby. i am living at home but my dad wont let me stay here for to long.

i have been looking for a job but nobody is hiring. i think i am gonna have to go onto to ontario works but i am so nervous about getting my own place. and i am worried that i cant do it on my own and it is so much stress and i am so upset and cant stop crying about it all, and to make things worse i just came down with a cold or something.

so i guess i am a single parent now or about to be

thanks guys

 

[Ash_P]

sorry ur going thru this, if u need any advice or just someone to talk to just PM me and il try help as best I can. Any time ur looking for some info or advice on anything just stick a wee post up. The girls are great on here, and I know they will help u as much as they can. We may not be there in person, but we are just a click away. Hope ur ok hun xx

 

[teal]

Sending you hugs

I hope you find some support here. As Ash said all the girls here are great xx

 

[lou_w34]

Like above! Everyones really nice here, so anytime you want advice, or just to rant away, you can here

 

[sweetlullaby]

Agree with all above posts The girls here are absolutely fantastic and even reading through the posts and things that other people are dealing with ...we all know we arnt alone!

Things will hopefully get better Your family will hopefully come round in time and be more supportive. Just post and rant away here its always good to let it all out!! And feel free to pm anytime! Its amazing what we can all deal with! xx

 

[18NPregnant]

thank you all so much

 

[louise85]

Hi everyone,
I'm pretty much going through the same thing at the moment, I'm 6+5 and he's already said he doesn't want us to be together although he'll be there 4 the baby. I already have 1 daughter from a previous relationship and unfortunantely was in pretty much the same position.
You are a lot stronger than you think and you are certainly not alone hun, yes there are times when it will be hard and you'll be thinkng aaarrrrgggghh!! But when you've got that little baby in your arms everything will be fine.
If you ever wanna talk pm me if you need to

 

[18NPregnant]

my dad has kicked me out like 3 times since i have been here and it just seems like a never ending battle.

i am moving into a pregnancy home and they will give me the support i need for the baby and to get out on my own.

but i wont be able to get in there for 6 weeks as they are making changes.

i just dunno what to do for the next 6 weeks. i amd just worried i am gonna be on the street

 

[lillprutten]

Dont know what to say, but I do hope you feel better soon xxx

 

[18NPregnant]

thank you