Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laust- I am more chilled too and you guys have really got me more over the bad stuff. Today was my due date and I haven't even cried... I just feel more at ease and realize IT'S OK!!!

Hi there, babyfever! Good luck to you and fx! When do you plan on testing?

 

[laustiredttc]

oh mama, wish i could give you a real one i'm glad that your feeling better about it though hun. And i'm here whenever you need me huni.

 

[Babyfever1212]

Good I'm hoping they're good signs! Were not sure of a date yet, we've been together for 5 years last Christmas, he wasn't too fond of the baby idea at first but he's definitely warmed up to it a lot since his best friend just had their baby and we have news of another friend expecting. It seems like everyone but us can get pregnant lately.. but I'm really hoping it's not from my Mirena, it's an IUD the gyno places in your uterus and prevents pregnancy for up to 5 years or until you have it taken out. Most doctors don't like to place them in women who haven't had a child yet because their uterus will still be small and never stretched from pregnancy, and I think that's why I had so many complications from it, as ive never been pregnant and had to have it removed. The doctor told me that I could get pregnant right after I have it removed and that my cycles would go back to normal within the next couple of weeks and I've had pretty regular cycles and this month we've done the deed almost every day so were really hoping this our month!!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

This is for you all...



Who said we can't have an online drink to get rid of our sorrows or just for the heck of it and make us happy ?.. cheers to us!

 

[Babyfever1212]

Hi mamato2girls! I'm thinking I'll test August 12th which is the day after AF if I can keep myself from giving in too early!! Lol

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Good I'm hoping they're good signs! Were not sure of a date yet, we've been together for 5 years last Christmas, he wasn't too fond of the baby idea at first but he's definitely warmed up to it a lot since his best friend just had their baby and we have news of another friend expecting. It seems like everyone but us can get pregnant lately.. but I'm really hoping it's not from my Mirena, it's an IUD the gyno places in your uterus and prevents pregnancy for up to 5 years or until you have it taken out. Most doctors don't like to place them in women who haven't had a child yet because their uterus will still be small and never stretched from pregnancy, and I think that's why I had so many complications from it, as ive never been pregnant and had to have it removed. The doctor told me that I could get pregnant right after I have it removed and that my cycles would go back to normal within the next couple of weeks and I've had pretty regular cycles and this month we've done the deed almost every day so were really hoping this our month!!

Wow! You had everyday for a month? Hope your fiance's count is good enough to do it that much! You shouldn't have a problem getting that now, Whoops, I just read almost every day but still that's alot. I haven't had birth control since I was in high school or maybe shortly after. Cuz I met my husband right afterI graduated, moved in with him, he had a whole year of school left. And we got married 1 week after he graduated. We fell pregnant 5 months later. Don't think we really tried, I can't remember it was so long ago, but we miscarried (blighted ovum)..anyways I've went through a lot to get the 2 I have now and I'm trying for just one more. As you can tell I just had my 5thm/c March 2 and I was 18 weels and it was a boy we so badly wanted. So, it will happen for you, just hang in there. We are all here for you to guide you along the way and wait out the horrible 2ww with you. I'm 1dpo so not too far behind you.

 

[Snizuitz]

Welcome babyfever! Fingers crossed for you that you get your BFP this month!!

Thanks to everyone for your supportive posts! I'm excited now to go to the doctor tomorrow and figure out what the deal is.

I hope we see tons of BFPs on here this month.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

That's good that you're excited, Sniz... hope all goes wonderful! Will be checking for updates from you for tomorrows results from the ultrasound.

 

[Babyfever1212]

To mamato2girls haha I know it has been quite a lot but he's happy about it lol we both really want make it happen, but also because I can't always tell if or when I'm ovulating for sure, so i figured if we do it everyday or close to it we can't possibly miss "the big day". Soo sorry to hear about your loss.. that's terrible.. I cant imagine what going though something like that must be like.. I know how bummed i feel after i get my period and realize we hadn't conceived, but that's so sad. Well your girls are beautiful, so congrats to you and thank you I really hope we've done it right this month. And good luck to you as well!!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

To mamato2girls haha I know it has been quite a lot but he's happy about it lol we both really want make it happen, but also because I can't always tell if or when I'm ovulating for sure, so i figured if we do it everyday or close to it we can't possibly miss "the big day". Soo sorry to hear about your loss.. that's terrible.. I cant imagine what going though something like that must be like.. I know how bummed i feel after i get my period and realize we hadn't conceived, but that's so sad. Well your girls are beautiful, so congrats to you and thank you I really hope we've done it right this month. And good luck to you as well!!

Thanks. You could try using ovulation prediction kits. But I guess instead of wasting money and letting him enjoy it and doing it about everyday will work just fine!

 

[Brayr08]

It is definetly nice to have you ladies to talk to. DH just doesn't understand. When I had my emotional break down last week, he litteraly just rolled his eyes at me like I was being a stupid girl. He's lucky I didn't stab him w/a fork or something. He did eventually apolagize for being so insenative, he just doesn't know how to handle this stuff.

 

[Snizuitz]

Brayr, I'm so sorry your hubby doesn't know how to handle the emotional downloads. While I have to say that I definitely lucked out with my guy, he does occasionally say the wrong thing ("Now, remember, you're on a lot of drugs, so a lot of this isn't as bad as you think!"). I know how difficult it can be for him not knowing how to help. The thing is: I don't need help! I need hugs!

Of course, that was me on Clomid. This month we haven't had any issues. God bless Femara!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Oh girls, men will never understand what it's like being a woman. I know hubby cares, he has really been emotional when I miscarried every time. He cares, he obviously seen what I had to go through... the poking the prodding, the PAIN, but I did it and get through it because I have the strength to understand motherhood and the love we have before the child is even conceived. If only we could somehow just "zap" them and make them feel what and how we feel sometimes would be AWESOME!

 

[Brayr08]

Well, we could always just TRY zapping them, w/like a cow prod or something and see if it helps them understand...and if it doesn't...muh...at least WE'LL feel better Just kidding...I love DH very very much.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

lol, yeah that would be mean but when we get in that type of mood, they better watch out..never know what we are capable of. Especially when it comes to babies/kids. Yes, we love them so much and would do anything for them just like we would a child. Which works out good, considering my husband likes to act like one sometimes.

 

[Ashley Marie]

Ok feeling good this month, dont know why? Need someone to keep me company. This is my first time writing down my symptoms would love someone to share I'm 1dpo here are symptoms:

Ovulation day: really bad cramping left side of tummy about 10:20pm in bed. Kept rolling over from side to side as it was keeping me awake. Feeling bloated.

1dpo: Really moody, needed a nap, felt really tired but think it's the humid weather. Woke up craving chocolate had a go at dh for eating the last kitkat Feeling a bit sensitive. Few more tiny niggles on left side

I ovulated on the 28th and hada good feeling about this month to but now that I think about it when I was 1dpo I was moody, and felt tired too also on the day of my ov I had bad cramping in the middle near my ovaries..If that makes any since. well best of luck to you and hopefully we both getta this month.

 

[laustiredttc]

hey ladies, you've been busy

hey mama its 8:45am here but yes cheers to us girls.

sni, good luck at the docs today fx

bray, know the feeling huni, would love to zap my husband whenever he doesnt get it, or just when he is being an arse

just quick update ladies, i got my peak today cd15 whoop whoop,

we bd last night though and the smep says when you get your peak you have to bd for 3 consecutive nights. So explained this to the dh and he looked shattered just from hearing it. told him to man up and step up

I'm excited now, for some reason was a bit nervous i might not O this month.

oK so another question: now i have peaked, same as when opk says positive, when do i actually O? is it 12-36 hours later?

 

[Brayr08]

laus-that is what my doc has told me.

 

[laustiredttc]

cool, ok so far, so good

Now the fun begins. so if i O 12-36 hours later i'm assuming that the day after tomorrow will be classed as 1dpo?
So bloomin confusing this whole thing!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laus-You always make m laugh. He better man up and go along with you the next couple nights to make sure his get your egg! I've even accused my hubby if he didn't "fake" it just to get it over with and make me think I have a chance of even being preggo. LOL is that mean? Oh well, but... keep temping girl! That will tell you what day you ovulated so you can be on with dpo. So happy you finally got your peak!

Sniz- Good luck today girl! Fx for you!