Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[HWPG]

hi!
cd7, nothing to report. waiting (impatiently) for Ov so i can put my "plan" into action. i think we're gonna try 4-5 nights in a row.... already sounds exhausting!
i have many ear piercings - 6 on left side, 5 on right. and i have a tattoo.
bray, how is your spotting?

 

[Brayr08]

Still there. It isn't heavy or anything. Mainly only there when I wipe. I hope the doc can give me some answers.

 

[mommyL]

I think I'm 1 DPO maybe 1-2 but to be safe Ill say 1. DH and I BD'd on day 14 only and I am on Day 17 now. Nothing yet

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

hw- we're going to 4night in a row...all nights he has off. Perfect timing, just hope I get my smiley on cd14 like i had before 2 months in a row and not O late like last month. I better start temping now i suppose. cd9 today...countdown is on!

bray- i hope your symptoms are a good sign! Sounds good to me anyways! FX so 'tight for you.

mommy..good luck and FX for you!

 

[HWPG]

oooohh! good to hear Mama! i was wondering if 4 days was too much. haha, we should have a pact.... let's both hope it works!
bray, maybe you should have the FS do a blood draw also (???). i've read that spotting can be due to hormones (ha, isnt everything?!). maybe low progesterone.... ??
welcome mommyL! GL!

 

[Brayr08]

I think I've had that tested (it's been oh, two years ago, at least) and all of my tests have come back fine. Maybe they'll have me tested again. Yipee.

 

[HWPG]

PS. i wish they had a "like" button on this - cause i would "like" your status heather -> "countdown is on!"

 

[HWPG]

do you guys ever feel like time slows down from cd1-cd10 or so... then speeds up during the "fertile window" (ahg! did we do it enough? should we do it twice?) and then slows back down during the second half of LP, like 7dpo to 14dpo (+/- for some of us)....??? i hate fertile people.... (pouts)

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

hahaha, isn't that the truth, hw...slow, fast, slow. Only God has a plan for us. We can try our best to plan but it isn't really up to us. Sucks I know, but everything happens for whatever reason. I just wish I could really make up my mind if we can "afford" a 3rd baby. I wouldn't have a choice if my last pregnancy would've been successful. It seems like, oh I have time before my fertile period to decide if it's really what I want, and then before I know it, its days away from trying and I get all revved up, like yes I'm going to try, I love babies, etc...then after O, i go back to omg what if we do end up preggo, how am I going to manage 3 kids and weight gain and losing the weight afterwards and being able to live comfortably with what extra money we do have now. Then I get bfn's and I'm like damn it, I want to see 2 lines so bad. Grrrrr... I really need to sit down and think about this. My 2 girls break the hell out of me with all the cute clothes they have.

 

[HWPG]

good morning ladies!
Mama, that is a lot to think about. I would never say i dont want a baby but there are definitely many times when i think, "what is the rush? i have such a good life - we go where we want when we want, we eat nice food, etc". I have no reference for expenses but everyone says how expensive babies are, and sometimes i get very anxious about that. but i totally get the emotions of going into Ov, then "omg what if it worked?", then disappointment of 1 line. ugh. nothing is ever easy, eh?
did i tell you guys i live in maine? we had an earthquake last night - nothing like that ever happens up here! it was pretty scary and it wasnt very big - 4.2 i think.
today is cd8. probably should have sex but OH and i had a big big fight last night so we're still doing that wounded hurt feeling thing where we're polite nice to each other. sec might have to wait until tomorrow. oh well!
sending hugs to my ladies - i think we could all use it!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

yes, deep in my heart i want another baby...you're right, i can't say i don't want one, i'm sorry i acted selfish and like i don't want another or wouldn't be happy with another. I would be very ecstatic.

I heard about that quake this morning. Glad you're ok. I live in Pennsylvania. I was to Maine once when I was young...for vacation to Old Orchard Beach in Saco. It was nice.

cd10 today, we dtdon cd7, planned to again the next night, but didn't happen...he is working every night now until he has off saturday night which is cd13 for me. 4 days in a row bd time. I forgot to temp this am...i better get on the ball tomorrow am and start opking. Happy Hump days ladies! I miss Laura and can't wait to hear from her this weekend!

How you doing Bray?

 

[HWPG]

no need to be sorry! i feel selfish ALL THE TIME - esp after visiting my nephew - i think "i'm crazy for wanting this life!". then i get AF and get sad and then get excited to try again! oh please oh please oh please October.....
I wonder how Laura is doing. i think i would be crazy without a computer.
I have family in PA - Philly and Pittsburgh. Small world!

 

[Brayr08]

There are times, especially after I spend time with my niece & nephews, that I think, holy crap! Why would I want this craziness?! Then after I'm away from them for like 5 minutes, I just Think about how much I miss them already and how much I just love them & then I remember, oh yea, THAT'S why. They may drive me crazy at times, but I love them more than words can describe. : )
I am 9DPO, so tomorrow, I plan on wasting some money & POAS. I know it's pointless, but I have to do it. I'm also supposed to hear from my doc tomorrow, so I'm really excited about that.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

there's always something to be excited about. I hope tomorrow brings you good news and I hope the doc gives you some answers and helps fix any problems.

cd11..temped this am, plan on opking later but i know it will be negative. I don't understand why my temps are a little higher than usual at this time before O....2 months ago and a few months before that my pre O temps were running under 97...now they are a little above? I hope it's not a bad thing... i guess i'ljust keep doing it and see if it confirms O. Ugh, the next few days cant come soon enough.

I have been having a week from hell...i can't wait for this week to be over with either, Between car problems and house problems I'm not a happy camper.

 

[HWPG]

Morning!
Mama, i wonder if your slightly higher temps are hormonal???? could just mean you're producing a little more progesterone or something before O. I'm sorry about your bad week; i feel the same way. but more like a month. OH and i are in each others face every day, short tempered, loving one minute, fighting the next. ugh. double ugh!
cd9 for me. nothing new to report.
have a great thursday!

 

[laustiredttc]

hello my lovely ladies i am back...... finally

Mirolee it HAS been hell without the computer

First of all i have catched up and girls you all made me tear up. You girls are amazing and really i can't say this enough!!!! We will get our we just have to caryy on and keep trying.

Cd 8 today. These past few weeks i have been poked and prodded to death. I have my operation monday for the hsg, lap and i am crapping myself!!!!!

Also had a major row with a so called friend this week after she threatened to, 'take my head off' really i dont like arguing at all so i just walked away. Its not been the best of weeks and i can say i am really happy to be back

 

[HWPG]

Hi laura! Glad you are back! Woot woot!

 

[laustiredttc]

oh, gosh, me too hun. I honestly was starting to lose my mind without my computer

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!! WELCOME HOME! you are amazing too! and I'm glad you're back and everything will be fine for Monday, you will have lots of prayers from us and hopefully you'll get some answers and get back on track.

 

[Brayr08]

Hi Laura!!! Missed ya girl!

My test was a BFN this morning, which I wasn't surprised. I won't test again until Saturday, unless AF shows. Which, if I do like I did last month, I would be starting tomorrow. My temp actually went up .3 degrees this morning, so I doubt I'll be seeing her tomorrow. I hope she holds off until Monday or Tuesday.
Still haven't heard from my doc yet...I'm getting a little annoyed.