Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[MamaTo2Girls]

i can see a line :/

Ahhh really??!! Just had a look and think I can see something on the pic but i have to tilt the screen and really look hard. Can't see anything in real life so I think it's probably just where a line would have been had it been positive. I might do a test later with my daughters wee to see if it shows the same

How are you getting on shobbs?

MamaTo2Girls - sorry your test was negative too Did you use your FRER? Waiting until Sat is a good idea - wish I had enough will power to wait but know I'll just cave and test anyway. Your temp is still way above the coverline so I wouldn't worry about that too much. Do you remember your 2ww symptoms with your daughters?

Yes, I used frer...only have 2 left, i'll try again saturday unless I buy another 3 pk tomorrow when i go into town! lol Maybe I will do that, I am so anxious to know and really felt I did everything right this tme and felt healthy to ovulate, etc. Thanks, we'll see. And I didn't really have any symptoms with my daughters or any pregnancy, lucky me, huh? And with them I never tested early, always like on day I was due. What has gotten into me, I became a POAS addict! Maybe from all my miscarriages, just having to know as early as possible.?

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

more extremely light brown spotting... if this is IB how Lon will it last? anyone know? also the cramps are terrible.

No idea.. maybe google it. How long have you had it again? Maybe give it another day.

 

[laustiredttc]

Morning ladies. its 09:17am here in the uk.
It is NOT looking good at all! Temp this morning was 98.34, NO symptoms whatsoever and another very clear Feel out this month. Cried a bit last night, just felt emotional about it all. Tired, just so very tired of it all. Next month will be my 13th cycle. I have this event thing on wed so if by tue i know im def out im going to just let loose and :drink: It would be great if i could put my thinking into hybernation mode during the tww!

IT JUST BLOODY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[shobbs]

Morning ladies. its 09:17am here in the uk.
It is NOT looking good at all! Temp this morning was 98.34, NO symptoms whatsoever and another very clear Feel out this month. Cried a bit last night, just felt emotional about it all. Tired, just so very tired of it all. Next month will be my 13th cycle. I have this event thing on wed so if by tue i know im def out im going to just let loose and :drink: It would be great if i could put my thinking into hybernation mode during the tww!

IT JUST BLOODY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

how many dpo are u?

 

[laustiredttc]

Morning ladies. its 09:17am here in the uk.
It is NOT looking good at all! Temp this morning was 98.34, NO symptoms whatsoever and another very clear Feel out this month. Cried a bit last night, just felt emotional about it all. Tired, just so very tired of it all. Next month will be my 13th cycle. I have this event thing on wed so if by tue i know im def out im going to just let loose and :drink: It would be great if i could put my thinking into hybernation mode during the tww!

IT JUST BLOODY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

how many dpo are u?

hi hun i'm 9dpo

 

[laustiredttc]

keep getting af pains as well so feel like af might arrive early

 

[Beeka]

Morning ladies. its 09:17am here in the uk.
It is NOT looking good at all! Temp this morning was 98.34, NO symptoms whatsoever and another very clear Feel out this month. Cried a bit last night, just felt emotional about it all. Tired, just so very tired of it all. Next month will be my 13th cycle. I have this event thing on wed so if by tue i know im def out im going to just let loose and :drink: It would be great if i could put my thinking into hybernation mode during the tww!

IT JUST BLOODY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm right there with you BFN for me too this morning!! I'm not even going to bother testing anymore. I know I am out. Why can't getting pregnant be easier??!!

 

[laustiredttc]

Morning ladies. its 09:17am here in the uk.
It is NOT looking good at all! Temp this morning was 98.34, NO symptoms whatsoever and another very clear Feel out this month. Cried a bit last night, just felt emotional about it all. Tired, just so very tired of it all. Next month will be my 13th cycle. I have this event thing on wed so if by tue i know im def out im going to just let loose and :drink: It would be great if i could put my thinking into hybernation mode during the tww!

IT JUST BLOODY SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm right there with you BFN for me too this morning!! I'm not even going to bother testing anymore. I know I am out. Why can't getting pregnant be easier??!!

im sorry hun. I mean it is early days so maybe, just maybe we might be in with a chance. For me thats wishful thinking lol. I know what you mean as well about the testing hun but i know tomorrow i will be there in the loo stick in hand and ready to pee tmi, sorry. I hope though that things do swing around for you beeka, keeping my fingers crossed for you huni

How are all you other ladies getting on today?

 

[shobbs]

ive never had a before 10dpo, with my son it was 14dpo and very faint on frer, so bought a digi, with my recent mc i had a at 10dpo x still early love

 

[HWPG]

good morning ladies. i'm so sorry you are all feeling frustrated and down-trodden. i am only 1 dpo and "i just know it didnt work this time. again". it's really hard to get out of the hopes-up:hopes-dashed cycle, and the TWW is the worst. it really DOES suck - i agree, i wish there was a hibernation button. yes, why can't getting pregnant be easy? and how do some people sneeze and it happens? *sigh* no matter what happens this month, i want to thank you all for posting and sharing - you continue to encourage and support every woman who struggles with this, including me. have a drink, snuggle your honey, cry, write in your journal, take some time to feel and do whatever you want. hugs to each of you!

 

[laydlyke]

good morning ladies. i'm so sorry you are all feeling frustrated and down-trodden. i am only 1 dpo and "i just know it didnt work this time. again". it's really hard to get out of the hopes-up:hopes-dashed cycle, and the TWW is the worst. it really DOES suck - i agree, i wish there was a hibernation button. yes, why can't getting pregnant be easy? and how do some people sneeze and it happens? *sigh* no matter what happens this month, i want to thank you all for posting and sharing - you continue to encourage and support every woman who struggles with this, including me. have a drink, snuggle your honey, cry, write in your journal, take some time to feel and do whatever you want. hugs to each of you!

I'm also 1DPO today. I too, feel like it didn't take this month either. Thanks for your encouraging words, I know it comforts us all.

 

[Snizuitz]

Thanks for the encouraging words, HWPG! I agree wholeheartedly!

Beeka and Laust-- It's still pretty early yet! I've only ever had one BFP and it was 13dpo, so it isn't quite over yet. I totally understand the whole "why get my hopes up when it hurts so much to have them dashed" feeling, though. This is not an easy journey, is it?

I'm 9dpo as well. Still testing to see when the HCG shot leaves my system. Saw the lightest possible line today, so I think tomorrow I'll be clear and then ready to start obsessing! Lol.

Today everything leaves an aftertaste in my mouth. It's really gross. Also, continued cramping that has started to feel less like menstrual cramps and more like random stretching and pokes. I keep thinking that maybe the cyst they saw a few weeks ago has popped. Who knows?

Happy Friday to you all!

 

[HWPG]

on a side note for everyone - i know we all kinda get into a rhythm of charting, temping, bd-ing, waiting. we get tired, sad, frustrated, busy. there are all sorts of things that go into our daily lives: work, partners, other stuff. and it all can just get so overwhelming. all that being said - and here's a tmi warning - last night was AWESOME blush: ) and i truly think it's because this is the first time i've had an outlet for all my worries, valid or not (this thread). no matter what happens for me this cycle, i will try to keep in mind that those bedroom activities can still be fun AND productive, ha! and i'm sending some (not all!) of that mojo to all of you!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laust and Beeka... I'm very sorry you got bfns again, i'm right there with you. I tested again and clear bfn AGAIN! Still thinking it's too early (trying not to crush my hopes) but really thinking I'm out and my chance of conceiving before my baby boys due date is gone. I'm starting to get really frustrated and depressed that I've gotten pregnant my first try with him and everytime we try it usually works at least within a few months, I really felt this month was great with using opk and felt my body was more ready to handle a pregnancy again since the m/c. Time will tell, but I feel crushed and I bought another 3pk of frer so I am gonna test the next 3 days straight, if bfn then i will wait until about next weekend. We all deserve this and I can't imagine you women that have a very difficult time trying to conceive even 1 child. You are a lot stronger than I am. I will tell you what and I don't mean to make you upset, my kids are my life and have changed me in so many ways possible. I can't imagine what my life would be like without them. I'm very lucky and blessed and I just want 1 more child, really... a boy preferrably but just one more HEALTHY pregnancy and child. That is all I ask for... Hope you gals stay positive, bfns can really get us down, but it will be what it meant to be. I wish you all strength to get through the 2ww, courage to keep trying, and love and friendship because that is what keeps us living and happy. Been busy getting ready for Breanna's (my oldest daughters) birthday party tomorrow, so I will try to update when I can, but I promise I will. Probably in the morning, my parents are visting until Sunday. FX for us all still and lots of to keep us smiling and fill our bellies with sticky beans!

 

[Brayr08]

Hey ladies! I'm going to jump in! I have been ttc for 3 years...ugh...and just started injectables this month. I did my trigger shot on Thursday and the hubby and I had TI this morning and will again tomorrow morning. I just started my tww and it's already killing me! I hope all of you get BFP's. My husband and I have no children period and I have never been pregnant, so I'm REALLY hoping this works this time. This is the first time I've posted to a board and am really looking foward to the support and see each of you get your BFP's!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Hey ladies! I'm going to jump in! I have been ttc for 3 years...ugh...and just started injectables this month. I did my trigger shot on Thursday and the hubby and I had TI this morning and will again tomorrow morning. I just started my tww and it's already killing me! I hope all of you get BFP's. My husband and I have no children period and I have never been pregnant, so I'm REALLY hoping this works this time. This is the first time I've posted to a board and am really looking foward to the support and see each of you get your BFP's!

Welcome Bray! You've definately picked a great place for support! We'll be here when you need us! Thank you and I hope we all get our bfps we're looking for and wanting so badly. Good luck to you! FX and

 

[HWPG]

Hey ladies! I'm going to jump in! I have been ttc for 3 years...ugh...and just started injectables this month. I did my trigger shot on Thursday and the hubby and I had TI this morning and will again tomorrow morning. I just started my tww and it's already killing me! I hope all of you get BFP's. My husband and I have no children period and I have never been pregnant, so I'm REALLY hoping this works this time. This is the first time I've posted to a board and am really looking foward to the support and see each of you get your BFP's!

Glad to have you here bray! We can all countdown together - and it is torturous. We are similar - no babies or pregnancies here, first time posting - so you came to the right place! Cheers!

 

[Beeka]

Laust - I caved and tested again today - why do I do it to myself?! Another BFN. That is me def out. No symptoms what so ever. Now I'm thinking about my next cycle. I should ovulate between the 9th and 16th of August. I use a donor so will need to let him know when I expect ovulation. This is when I wish I had shorter cycles - it's annoying having to wait 3-4 weeks just to ovulate

Let us know how your test went today - keeping my FX'd for you.

HWPG and Laydlyke I hope your feeling of being out already are proven wrong by some beautiful BFP's

Snizuitz those symptoms sound very promising

Mama it's so hard isn't it. I don't understand why TTC takes so long. We time everything perfectly every cycle and still nothing. I'm sorry you didn't get your BFP before your son's due date
You are right - we are very lucky to have our children and like you say - my daughter is my life too. I just feel like I was born to be a mummy and desperately want more. I know I will have more, I'm just being impatient. I hope Breanna has a lovely birthday x

Welcome Bray, you definitely have come to right place. Lots of wonderful ladies in here with lots of support to give. 3 years - you are a stronger person than me. I've only been trying for a year and already it's killing me. I can't imagine staying on this rollercoaster for 3 years. I really hope the injections have helped and you get your BFP x

 

[laustiredttc]

Hey girls wow you girls have been busy. I had to get out of the house last night the whole thing was just doing my nut in. Went to dinner with dh and just chilled, was nice.

welcome laydlyke, bray08 and hwpg. These girls are lovely here and there is lots of support.

Mama im keeping my fx crossed for you hun, i know this is extra hard for you, your not out yet so hold onto that thought huni. Happy birthday to Breanna hope you all hav a lovely day.

snizuitz - its sounds good huni, keep us posted with the symps

Beeka - Me too im looking to the next cycle not worked out yet what my O date will be though. Fx for your next one hun.

Today 10po - took test this morning and ALL symptoms gone apart from slight nausea but i think that was because i had two glasses of wine last night, which i never do in the tww! Also temp 98.62 but i know this is because of the wine and also the temp was taken 1hr and 30 after i usually take it.
Am feeling ok though, i got a letter from hospital for my appointment to see the fertility specialist on thurday 20th so feeling like there might be a silver lining. Will keep poas until af arrives so will keep you wonderful ladies posted.

Hope you are all well girls and im still hoping and wishing for you all.

 

[shobbs]

ok so today im 6dpo have tender breats and really mild af type aches. my temp took a dip today, as this is my first month charting, any ideas if this is a good sign or not????