Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[laustiredttc]

oh sweetie i really really pray that she keeps her f'ing ugly face away and that you get your magical I am really rooting for you bray huni. C'mon hun bring that home!!!

 

[HWPG]

me too bray! omg, i am wishing and hoping and praying!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Bray-of course we will pray for you....you are totally deservable of having that now! It's your time to shine and have your moment. Super big and FX super tight! CD11 for me today....been meaning to temp the last 2 days but just haven't and forgot... oh well. Either tomorrow or Thurs I am going to start opking...and tomorrow night hubby and I will bd (cd12) and then bd again on friday (cd14)and then possibly sunday (cd16) in the am. I'm already anxious to get on the 2ww list. Only a few more days!!!

Laus-hope the soy helps ya girl. And I hope the fs goes well and it's more than just an orientation introducing appt. I hate those appts, but if thats what it is to get started then so be it. Will be praying for you.

Hw-good luck with everything this week....the bding and timing and everything. Praying for you as well!

 

[laustiredttc]

hey mama thankyou and i hope you have lots of fun bding

The dh has managed to get some time off work to come to the app with me so i feel soo much better about it now

 

[Brayr08]

laus-That's awesome that DH can go with you. My hubby can never take time off for just appointments. It would be nice to have someone's hand to hold at times.

Thanks for the prayers everyone, but I had a wipe of pinkish red last night, some redish brown this morning and a BFN. So, AF was just playing her favorite trick on me...b*tch...Oh well...I'm bummed, but I knew it was likely I wasn't pregnant, what with not really knowing when I Oed. So, while I normally start first thing in the morning, I'll probably have the joy of fully starting while at work. Yipee...now I'm just waiting for her to go away so I can start BDing again.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Awww Bray...i'm sorry. You are so strong and brave and have a lot of faith. Which is how every woman should be. You did your best and that's all you can do. Feeel proud of that! Have a good day at work and hope your time goes by so you can try bding again.

Laus-ilove having huby going with me to every appt. When I do get preggo, I travel an hour to my ob/gyn. I just schedule my appts on days he has off Having support from your other half always means som uch and is such a good feeling.

 

[HWPG]

hi gals!
oh bray, i'm so sorry! i hate that B so much!
laus, glad to hear that your hubby can go with you. i know how helpful it was for me when i was struggling with infertility for my husband to be there. it's nice to have the support, both emotionally and physically.
mama, how is your plan working out?
afm, i am on cd14. no pos opk yet, just waiting waiting. today starts the 3 day "marathon". i got my softcups yesterday (yay!) so i'll give those a try this week. i'm still upset about OH traveling but at least he'll be home sunday night, so really we'll only have a 1 day gap... *sigh*... i suppose we all do the best we can, eh? btw, it's "speak like a pirate day" - so have fun with that! hugs to all the ladies

 

[laustiredttc]

great hw lol. aha me matey i hope ye has fun with the al that was fun made me smile think i did a piss poor job of it though

oh bray huni i think your amazing for being so brave. lots of to you huni hope she stays away while at work

Thanks mama, really excited about my app tomorrow now. Scared a little though of how we're going to move forward.

 

[HWPG]

dont be scared laus! be exicted! you'll get info and a plan, and that gives you power!

 

[Brayr08]

Thanks everyone!

Good luck tomorrow laus! It is sort of scary at first, but hopefully it's just something simple for you. If they run the dye through your tubes to see if you have endo (they won't do it tomorrow, but I would guess that would be one of the first steps), it's possable they'll clear any blockages you have right then. I know of a few ppl that got their BFP the month after that procedure. The first things I did was blood work, then an external ultrasound of my overies and then the dye test. Let us know what they say. I want to see if your experiance is going to be much different then mine. Well, I hope it is. My experiance has sucked! (since nothing has worked yet...)

 

[Snizuitz]

So sorry, Bray. Grrr! This can be so frustrating, huh? HUGS!!!

 

[laustiredttc]

thanks girls

Bray i'm sorry you have had a difficult experience I have already had all of my blood work done and an external and internal u/s done at the doctors so hopefully they will do a hsg or lap pretty much soon after my initial consultation.

I have had an absolute nightmare tonight. I could smell gas in my house so had the gas people out to inspect it. Was told it is leaking a bit of gas so have called the gas engineer who said he would be here by 9pm. I now get a call saying he is going to be here at 10:20pm. Pissed off does'nt even begin to express how i feel. I need to feel fresh for my very important app tomorrow and this guy is just stressing me out big time I swear i must have done something bad in a past life because i just feel like the universe is against me atm. I know that sounds childish but its just not what i need right now. eugh...... Fricken stupid engineer man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[HWPG]

laus, whoa! i would totally go off on the engineer - that doesnt sound like a safe situation! why would anyone think it would be ok to a) be that late and b) be tardy about a gas leak? what is wrong with people!!?!! totally understand why you're upset.

 

[laustiredttc]

I know right! He is here now, no f'ing cup of tea for him i can tell ya. Gave me some lame excuse about having alot of other jobs to do. WHATEVER, its a gas leak, get a grip mate!!!!!! Ok so i am trying to calm myself down before i have a breakdown or something, gonna just take some deep breaths and chill.

 

[HWPG]

Laus, deep breath. The leak won't get fixed if you strangle him .
Sniz! How are you!? What's the word, hummingbird?!

 

[HWPG]

Omg. So I just put my first softcup in and this. Is. Awesome. I need to ask - what is wrong with us women sometimes? Why am I 31 and just finding out about this device? Why don't more women tell women? Anyways, I am in awe. Nothing came out. Nothing. Normally it's... Um... Messy but this... I don't even know what to say. In some future I am telling my daughter about these, even if it is an uncomfortable conversation, haha!

 

[laustiredttc]

hw you totally crack me up girl. I will get to use them soon so super excited

Ok so bolier fixed catastrophe averted, phew!

Went today for my fs app and girls let me tell you it feels surreal. I am glad i took my dh because i dont think a word of what the dr said went in. Although i dont think he took any of it an either Ok so now i am thinking do i need to book the app or do they send me a letter? I might have to call back just to reconfirm a few things

They are sending me for a combined lap and dye at once so good news is i will be under while they perfom the dye test whilst they are checking for endo and anything else, what a relief! Also i have to have my day 3 bloods taken and they also took swabs for the usual chlamydia etc.... Which is nigh impossible i have. I said to dh though if that test came back positive you better run mate and keeping running because i will chop the damn thing off lol. I feel sooooooooo much better now that there is some progression so just gonna chilax this month i think.

How is everone else getting on? btw happy thursday, nearly the weekend again, how the days go by!!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laus-that's great that your first initial app is over. Glad you have some looking forward to do and i hope the whole process is quick...you better call back and schedule that app asap so you don't wait any longer than you have to. Look how long it took you to even get this app. Call now!!! lol Glad you got your gas leak fixed too, good thing you didn't end up carbon monoxide poisoning or something.

Hw-How is my plan?....i don't know what to say,i think good and bad, but probably for the better?...let me explain. So, stupid me didn't temp (forgot) starting cd10 like i planned. I didn't temp until this morning, which is cd13 for me. Wedid bd as planned lastnight and put softcup in..I did temp this am but the odd thing was, it was a little higher than i expected considering all the previous months at this time (like low post-ovulatory....hmmm, and afterwards i went to the and and tried back to sleep and might've felt a short moment ovulation pains? I haven't opked, but planned to start today since the last 3 months, i got my positive smiley on cd14. Really hoping I didn't ovulate yet but glad we bd lastnight just in case i did and that was why my temp was a little higher than usual. Hoping i see my smiley today or tomorrow. Will update later.

Sniz-how are you hunny?

Bray-you are an inspiration and really have a heart of gold. Keep your head up and smile.

 

[HWPG]

So, i was reading last night about every day versus every other day and almost everywhere says that every other day should be enough for success. (i was thinking about this because of this weekend and getting OH back on sunday night, which originally was "no problem" and is now becoming a negotiation, gr). i think Mama, you've got your bases covered. thank you for the encouragement to SoftCups. oh thank you! keep us posted.... oh excited for you!
laus, great news! i'm doing a little one of these for you
afm, cd15. neg opk this morning. we dtd last night. will again tonight and tomorrow - i'm still holding out hope that the opk is pos tom morning. i have a silly question about SoftCups though - can you block the liquid from getting in? i mean, i think i did it right (like i said there was no leakage) but at the same time, what if i put it in front of the stuff instead of behind it? thoughts? i had to explain to OH that having sex friday night, then saturday morning was silly because there needs to be a little more time between deposits. hasnt he realized that timing is everything?

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

hw-i only leave mine in for 12 hours...and everytime i take it out there is always stuff in there. So, I know i'm doing it right, but my questions is if any has left the cup? other people got pregnant using them , so some must travel out of that cup... but FX you get your pos opk soon and you can negotiate with him coming back sun! Thank you and i'm going to keep temping and hopefully i find my smiley today or tomorrow and i haven't had a big enough thermal shift yet.