Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

[MamaTo2Girls]

YAY thanks!!! Yea we could every 24 hours but i think it's too much for hubs and the spermies. If I just got my surge i have at least 12 hrs i think before i O...so i think it'd be better to just do it tomorrow morning and possibly the next morning when he gets home? I HATE doing it the morning because I like to lay down all night to help the spermies. So, if we do it in the morn I am laying down for 1 hour before i get up to do anything. I'll have to use my finger i guess or like i said possibly reuse one and just clean it very well. That's awesome we alll peaked the same day!

 

[HWPG]

so Mama, if we do 1am (monday), 10p (monday), 10p (tuesday) - is that too often? eek!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

in my opinion i think it's too much....please at least wait 24 hours. But it is your decision not mine! I've read a lot into how long to wait and etc. and i've read it's best to at least allow 24 hours for sperm to regenerate. IMO if you do it too much, the sperm might me defective and if you got preggo you might have an early m/c due to chromosomal abnormality with the sperm.

 

[HWPG]

agh, really!? oh man.... so maybe 1am monday, 6am tuesday? hope that covers us...

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

whoops i read that wrong, i thought it said 1pm and 10pm not even 12 hours apart. That's only 21 hours...should be alright! I just need to hope i don't miss my egg. I hope waiting til morning will be good and then again next morning...eek, i'm freaking out.

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

wait, today is monday? how can you at 1am mon, are you a day ahead of yourself?

 

[HWPG]

i'm freaking out also! dammit!
we had sex this morning, at 1am. he didnt get home til 11p last night and by the time we made it to bed.... it was monday! then at 7am i got my pos opk, so i'm thinking if we have sex tonight (which wont be til 10p or later, knowing our routine), i'll catch the 12-24 hour window. plus we can never motivate in the morning.... so it will almost be 24 hours. i'm going for it!
ps. stupid stupid ttc and ovulating and freaking out about LH surges, gah! thanks SO much Mama for the support and conversation! (sorry for the rest of you guys to read our back and forth, but maybe it will give you some good info )

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

I had to take a pic! Top opk is from lastnight...and then today at the same time are the regular internet cheapie opk and digital .

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Well, i will be a little past my 12 hour window by like 7 hours by the time he will get home from work. But the egg will wait for another 12 hours for a sperm, correct? So I should be good to go in the am...although we could before he goes to work tonight and again tomorrow before he goes to work but my lil one is home and i feel so uncomfortable dtd with her awake and in the middle of the day. Do you guys agree waiting til morning will be ok and again the next morning?

 

[HWPG]

i totally think you are ok to wait until the morning, esp cause you dtd yesterday.

 

[HWPG]

nice looking pics, Mama.
havent heard from Asibling in a while - are you still out there? any update?

 

[HWPG]

Well, that's done. Not sure if we can go a third day; he's literally tapped out, hehe. Hope my temp climbs tomorrow! Mama? Laus? Sniz? Bray?

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Laying here...just got done bd. I think my hubs is pretty worn down after working 12 hrs and come home to use the last of his energy, lol. So fx now...did the best we could. Fx for you, hw. Yes where is everyone else at???

 

[Brayr08]

Nothing exciting to report. CD3...BLAH...I think I'll start using OPK's on Sunday. I'm still temping, so we'll see. I'm glad you girlies finally all got you positives. I think as soon as AF leaves town, dh and I will bd every other day until I get a positive. Still using soft cups and preseed. I'm hoping ONE of us gets that BFP this month, this streak has got to end eventually!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

Sounds like a great plan, bray! Hw-since we peaked at the same time, wouldn't it be awesome for both of us to test the the same day and both get a bfp now? FX FX FX!!!

How are you doing, Sniz,Laus and asibling?

 

[HWPG]

hi all!
still have a nice strong pos opk this morning. i get nervous that "was my first one really positive?" - but take a deep breath and just relax. not sure if we will dtd again tonight; we're both exhausted! OH said he's in though, so we'll see where the night ends.
omg, mama, could you imagine? eeeee! excited already!
bray, good luck with temping and opks. i know i havent had a bfp yet but i do really enjoy graphing and tracking and such - our bodies are so interesting!
hope tuesday treats everyone well!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

I feel so bad for hubs....i think i'll just leave this morning as the last time trying. I'm pretty sure my temp will go up in the morning and i just hope ONE of those :sperm: went up the right tube and is waiting there for my egg. Or if the egg is there waiting, then it goes for it. 2ww, i am ready for you tomorrow. I think for kicks i'll take a ic opk and see if how it looks. I think i will test either Oct 3 or 4. Probably just wait til the 4th when I am 10dpo. 4 is my favorite number. lol

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

hw-your doing fine and the best you can...you got this girl! :thumbsup:

 

[HWPG]

my temp went up already this morning, so i think i O'd yesterday. the earliest i will test is oct 6... if all goes well... eke! fx for us!

 

[MamaTo2Girls]

can you ovulate wit your opk still so strong...hmm, i suppose you can. My temp went down a little since yesterday morning, so i know i didn't yet. If it doesn't go up in the morning i m ay make hubs do it one more time..but i might not. Aww hw your no fun! lol...i don't know if i can wait til the 6th. We'll see how everything goes.

Laus-you feeling better? I hope your back to normal!