Need some buddies 1dpo, its a waiting game!

Weird..in now experiencing pinching feeling in tge same spot I was cramping earlier.
 
yey heather that sounds v promising huni, keeping fx for you.

Rach, i say give it a go hun :thumbup:

afm, well i am totally just pissed off with it all now. Seriously just fed up to the point where i am seriously thinking of not trying at all for a while. My temp plummeted this morning to pre O levels so looks as if that supposedly STRONG O was just a load of bullshit!!!!!! I think my cycle is all wonky, i have no cm whatsoever and got another pos opk again today, WTF???????????? Fu&* it, i just cant be arsed with it anymore. Gonna have few beers tonight, think i need them :cry: sorry for being in fowl mood ladies.
 
i'e had my temp plummet a few cycles after O...i bet tomorrow it will be back up. Don't be hard on yourself hun. maybe something threw your temp off. do you have a pic of your opk test, maybe it isn't positive. Hope everything works out well. :hugs:
 
thanks heather, it was def pos as the test line was darker than the control. My temp went up a bit again today but only to 97.90? Normally my post O temps go to about 98.58ish i think? See this is why i fricken hate using opk or temping it just stresses the hell out of me. I wasn't going to do it but then thought i best to check to make sure my cycle is normal and arrrrgh just bloody typical it goes all screwy!!!! I must admit though i haven't done it every day and not wrote any of the temps down. and i did get some unusually low pre o temps like 97.05 so maybe i have O and my temps have just changed since the mc. Sorry for dribbling on girls, just frustrated. Gonna try mellow out a bit :blush:
 
Anyway, how are you all doing? Heather any more symptoms? Pretty quiet around here
 
Ok ladies, I posted this in the TTC section but I'm thinking it was the wrong place for it. Any opinions here?

I'm unsure as to exactly how long my cycles are, but I assume probably 29-30 days based on just knowing about when AF falls. My last period started around the 26th of March. OH went out of town for a while and we did the deed when he returned on the 11th of April (so 10 days ago). I'm not really familiar with ovulation calendars and fertile days or any of that yet so who knows if I was very fertile that day. Anyway, I thought AF was coming a bit early yesterday morning, but it was just a bit of very light brown spotting. I really never spot. I had an odd pinching feeling in my lower abdomen, but thought nothing of it. I noticed by boobs were sore last week, but thought nothing of that either. So.. what the? I'm confused as to what's going on and wondering if we made a whoopsie, but I'm afraid to test because I know it would be ok if it were negative (timing), but I'd also be really disappointed. I just told OH what's going on and he said "Yay! So we're having a baby?!"

So sore boobs about 6 days after and light brown spotting at 10 days after DTD? Was I even fertile? It seems so improbable, being that we pulled out and I have no idea when I ovulate. Opinions please! I know it's silly not to just take a test, but I just don't know that I want to get a negative and be sad, but also know it's for the best. I also think it may be too early. Any opinions welcome!
 
hi lili
it seems like 4/11 was about day 17 of your cycle. you def could have been in your fertile time, right around when you probably ovulate. even with pulling out, you could def be pregnant. honestly, i would give it 2 more days (that would be a 30 day cycle, since today is about day 28), and if nothing, then you really are gonna have to take that test!
 
hey gals
i was away this weekend visitng my bff who just had her baby. had a lovely time, got to hold the baby as much as i wanted. while i'm not ready for the every 2-3 hour feedings, i am ready for a LO. i start clomid on wednesday; i'm excited and scared.
laus, so sorry for all the frustration! argh, why cant it just be like - period, ovulate, something (bfp or another period)?! our bodes are super frustrating, and i have not had a mc, but i can only imagine what that does to us. hugs. have some beers and sex 'cause there's nothing else you can do, right?
barb, glad the numbers came back doubled, what a relief!
heather, waiting to hear from you....
rach, when does the next something start for you, and what will it be?
hugs y'all
 
Thanks HWPG. I'll give it until mid-week, then pick up a test. I have such mixed feelings about this! I'm still spotting this morning, but VERY lightly. Is light brown spotting for 2 days normal for implantation?

Hooray for starting Clomid. I'll have my FX for you!
 
lili it's normal...my last af started on march 27th....my cycle lasts about the same as yours, 28-30 days. I am due for af friday, so you should be due for it thursday. I also expereienced light pinching on my left lower abdomen, i am 9 days past ovulation today and i tested but BFN. Could still be early i hope....i never have experienced implantation bleeding. If you are 10, a first response early result test may show a positive. Just go get a test and take it first thing in the morning. Best of luck to you.
 
I hope it was BFN due to being too early! :hugs: I will pick up a test today and take it either tomorrow or Wednesday and report back. Hoping to hear about a BFP for you in the next couple days!
 
Heather-- sounds very promising despite BFN. It is still very early, so no worries! When are you going to test again?

Mirolee-- You don't really need to be scared of Clomid. Honestly, I think I was an extreme case. If you have handled birth control alright in the past, then it probably won't be too horrible. I hope this is the magic bullet for you!

Laura-- Hope you're feeling better, sweetie. Having the grumps is no fun!

Lili-- Welcome! Yes, I agree with the other ladies-- this could be a BFP for you!

AFM, I am beyond-reason exhausted. I just want to sleep all the time. This is going to be the worst week for me. The only thing I have going for me is that I don't have morning sickness so I won't be puking through it all. I have two conferences to go to (which means no naps and no snacks for me :(. Huh. Just realized I've been spoiled!) and I have two evening shifts for my second job as well. Wish me luck!!
 
i'm testing again tomorrow if my temp goes back up...it went down today like .3-.4 degrees! Yesterday it was 98.1 and today it went to 97.78. Last month I had a supposable implant dip at 9dpo where it went down at least .3 degrees, but i didn't end up preggo....so i really feel out already despite all our hard work and i had great feelings this time.
 
barb, i have heard that you can feel sick if you let your blood sugar drop, so make sure you keep snacks with you, just in case.
 
Will do, Mirolee! Thanks for the advice! I'm going to try to just take this week one day at a time. Hopefully it won't be too painful.
 
I hope it was BFN due to being too early! :hugs: I will pick up a test today and take it either tomorrow or Wednesday and report back. Hoping to hear about a BFP for you in the next couple days!
Good Luck!! FX for you.

Heather-- sounds very promising despite BFN. It is still very early, so no worries! When are you going to test again?

Mirolee-- You don't really need to be scared of Clomid. Honestly, I think I was an extreme case. If you have handled birth control alright in the past, then it probably won't be too horrible. I hope this is the magic bullet for you!

Laura-- Hope you're feeling better, sweetie. Having the grumps is no fun!

Lili-- Welcome! Yes, I agree with the other ladies-- this could be a BFP for you!

AFM, I am beyond-reason exhausted. I just want to sleep all the time. This is going to be the worst week for me. The only thing I have going for me is that I don't have morning sickness so I won't be puking through it all. I have two conferences to go to (which means no naps and no snacks for me :(. Huh. Just realized I've been spoiled!) and I have two evening shifts for my second job as well. Wish me luck!!

I always got sick if I didnt eat so I second Mirolee.

i'm testing again tomorrow if my temp goes back up...it went down today like .3-.4 degrees! Yesterday it was 98.1 and today it went to 97.78. Last month I had a supposable implant dip at 9dpo where it went down at least .3 degrees, but i didn't end up preggo....so i really feel out already despite all our hard work and i had great feelings this time.

Keeping my FX for you hon, probably too early. :hugs:With my DD I didnt get a bfp until the day my period was due!

Mirolee good luck with clomid, I really hope it works quickly for you =)

AFM....The :witch: FINALLY came. So now I'm temping and tracking my cycles and joined a new gym (it has a massage bed!) so I'll be all set for July to ttc when I see my hubby. Stalking all of you lovely ladies, hope you dont mind me sticking around =)
 
Please do stick around, Tlk! We've all been on this thread for a while now. It's been a wonderful support for me this last year or so while TTC and going through different treatments.

Glad to have you here!
 
AF got me. I'm slightly relieved, since we're really more WTT/NTNP right now anyway, but we were both actually kind of sad. I think OH was more disappointed than I was though.. he said "I was actually hoping there was a little guy in there". Oh well. I'll be back to the TTC/TWW areas of bnb soon enough. :hugs: for the support, ladies. Fingers crossed for BFPs all around.
 

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