Need Support

[babywebb]

My husband and I lost our first baby back in March. We saw a perfect little baby with perfect heartbeat at 7w2d and went back in at 12 weeks when doctors told us baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. We just found out we are expecting again and don't have first scan until I'm 7 weeks on August 18th. I'm so nervous that the same thing will happen again I know if it's Gods' will it will happen but I just need someone to talk to this wait is driving me crazy!

 

[mirandaprice]

I've met a few ladies through these forums that have had mmcs and continued on to have healthy pregnancies afterwards, it's hard not to, but try not to stress to much over it.

I've experienced a loss, but it was so early on in don't always talk about it - the fear is stiffling though. I go for my first scan next week, but am happy to chat with you to help ease some anxiety!

 

[hmmohrma]

The statistics of successful pregnancy after one loss are in your favor, but that will never make you feel better. I am 26 weeks with this pregnancy, and I still worry. I have everything crossed that you have sticky dust, and I hope you can try to find things to keep you happy while you wait for your ultrasounds. Don't let other people make you feel bad for feeling bad...it is okay.

 

[BSelck24]

Stay positive girl! You got this! Try your hardest to separate this pregnancy from your mc and enjoy every minute! Send your new baby all of those positive vibes and love

 

[thehippie777]

We had our loss October 18th. I totally know what it's like to be in your place. I don't wish the experience on anyone. I just prayed and prayed when we found out we were expecting again. I am one month out from the due date and it's comforting to feel our baby girl move. I sometimes panic when I haven't noticed her move, but I've gotten used to feeling her that I sometimes don't notice.

God has you in His hands. Much love and comfort I pray for you.

 

[lilesMom]

Hugs hon xxx
I mmc my first.
Then had my son.
I totally get the anxiety and fear.
Do what u need to to get u through to first scan.
I distanced myself a little from this preg for awhile
To guard myself a little.
Its what helped me.
But if u can do try and get as much enjoyment as u can from being preg.
Wishing u happy and healthy ten months hon.
Xxx