squidge87
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2008
- Messages
- 92
- Reaction score
- 0
We're getting married on 17th april (when I'll be 34 weeks) we've been engaged 5 years but made a sudden decision to get married before baby gets here and also partners dad was given months to live in january. The first my sister knew was when I asked her how she'd feel about being a pregnant bridesmaid, i then told her the date and she's gonna be away for 2 weeks then, which i didnt know! Now she wont talk to me because i will not change the date, my mum keeps on at me to change it and has offered to pay to change it with the register office (notice) and was even saying yesterday that her and my stepdad were thinking of not coming and that mine and my sisters kids should grow up together but they wont if my sister holds a grudge (so of course i ended up going to my partner in tears!) Why cant they understand the reasons why we cant change it?! Could really do without all this!!!! Originally we'd wanted it about now but for a few reason couldnt then thought round easter but reverend is on holiday so thats the earliest we could do it and dont want it any later in case dress doesnt fit and we really dont know how long partners dad has got and we've asked him to be best man (if he's up to it). Also got a problem with numbers for the reception, small venue and worked out to ahout 90 guests, we only want a small do and my mums saying I cant not invite some of them, so i feel if i dont thats just one more thing for her to have a go at me for!! Argh! I really dont know what to do!!! (sorry its so long!!)