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We're getting married on 17th april (when I'll be 34 weeks) we've been engaged 5 years but made a sudden decision to get married before baby gets here and also partners dad was given months to live in january. The first my sister knew was when I asked her how she'd feel about being a pregnant bridesmaid, i then told her the date and she's gonna be away for 2 weeks then, which i didnt know! Now she wont talk to me because i will not change the date, my mum keeps on at me to change it and has offered to pay to change it with the register office (notice) and was even saying yesterday that her and my stepdad were thinking of not coming and that mine and my sisters kids should grow up together but they wont if my sister holds a grudge (so of course i ended up going to my partner in tears!) Why cant they understand the reasons why we cant change it?! Could really do without all this!!!! Originally we'd wanted it about now but for a few reason couldnt then thought round easter but reverend is on holiday so thats the earliest we could do it and dont want it any later in case dress doesnt fit and we really dont know how long partners dad has got and we've asked him to be best man (if he's up to it). Also got a problem with numbers for the reception, small venue and worked out to ahout 90 guests, we only want a small do and my mums saying I cant not invite some of them, so i feel if i dont thats just one more thing for her to have a go at me for!! Argh! I really dont know what to do!!! (sorry its so long!!)
 
aww hun. Sorry I have no advice just wanted to say sorry that you are going through this!! Your family should realise that its YOUR day, and not for their benefit. If the 17th April is what is best for you and OH then stick with it. It's not your fault your sis is away!! :hugs: x
 
I thik your sister is being a bit selfish to be honest given your reasons for getting married so quickly, could your sister not move her holiday? as lets face it it would be easier for her to rearrange that then a wedding.
 
I thik your sister is being a bit selfish to be honest given your reasons for getting married so quickly, could your sister not move her holiday? as lets face it it would be easier for her to rearrange that then a wedding.

They going away to her boyfriends brothers wedding actually and she said its too much money to loose as they wouldnt get it back, and she'll only just be able to fly herself as she'll be about 28 weeks then. I am ot giving in and changing the date I just dont know how to handle the situation really. My mums telling me not to fall out with her about it but im not. Im trying to speak to her but she dont wanna know and I dont understand why she's taking my sisters side on it. I think we shold just bugger off to a register office and grab a couple of people of the street lol
 
If you are trying to make an effort with your sister and she isn't interested then I would just leave it. She is being very childish and she is not worth getting stressed over :hugs: Might sound harsh but its true.

Hope you have a lovely wedding and :hugs: to OH's dad xxx
 
Oh I see, if that is the case then I would stick to the 17th April. Unfortunately it is just one of those things that has happened.
 

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