need to rant!!

[angie79]

aint like he can come and get me.

i actually had this fear that he was going to take my LO away. FAT CHANCE.

ive told his sister that she wont be babysitting and she wont be seeing my baby without me there...i know for a fact that she'd take bubs to see him without me knowing...and then lie. i dont trust them. any of them


thanks again ladies...duno what i'd do without all your words of comfort on here

it really means a lot

xxxx

turn your phone off honey and that way you wont know also dont bother telling her anything
also just to give you piece of mind she would not be able to take the baby to the prison unless she had id so dont worry about that.

As i said before these people are not worth your time or worry.

xxx

 

[KaeRit21]

i have done, i really am done with them.

i didnt realise she'd need ID to take bubs in, thank you for the info, that helps settle my mind somewhat!

im glad im not the only one to think im not being unreasonable

you ladies are angels, honestly

xxxx

 

[angie79]

glad it settles your mind

sounds like your the only reasonable one out of all of them

xx

 

[KaeRit21]

not that theyd have you believe that. amazes me how some people just cant see two feet in front of them

awk i dont even know why i bother gettin all upset and ratty at all. where does it get me? and its not like they care or take any notice. if they'd listened, i wouldnt have to keep repeating myself...

xxx

 

[angie79]

record it and put it on a loop and send it to them

i still let people bother me far too much but i'm getting alot better in the last few years
i would love to be having a baby in a few weeks your very lucky to have gift like that (cheesy i know) just remember that thats all you need right now

xx

 

[KaeRit21]

this little squirmy bundle is the only thing keeping me sane, i know im a lucky girl

just wish they would stop trying to ruin my last weeks and let me get on with enjoying my wee baby.

itl be your turn soon hunni and ul have your own wee bundle

xxx

 

[angie79]

i know - thanks

they should know to leave it cos of the stress to the baby but some people just dont think about these things

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

read through the post...i hope you had your bath and tummy massage You sound as though your not as upset now! Dont let her get to you....though i know thats a lot easier said than done!

Awwwk its so unfair you've only 3 weeks to go and your being harrassed and stressed like this. The woman should know better than to put so much pressure on you!!

I know how you feel about being stressed and worried...i realised when glancing through my messages that FOB has text the last few times... exactly 3 weeks apart!! So i keep having this feeling of dread that he's gonna contact me tomorrow and stress me out and upset me all over again And as due date is waaay closer now...i reckon the stress will be waaay worse...im gonna be like a time bomb tomorrow just waiting if he texts me at all!

Oh and your definately not being unreasonable! xxx

 

[KaeRit21]

some people just lack common sense. irritates the life out of me.

i sometimes wonder how she'd have reacted if it'd been her when she was having her LO.

xxx

 

[sweetlullaby]

I would ask her next time she annoys you lol

Tell her to put herself in your shoes and would she be doing what she's trying to pressurise you and guilt trip you into doing?

Either that or use the "not so polite" words from the dictionary and tell her where to go! lol xx

 

[KaeRit21]

dont tempt me. im not too far off it... i seriously hope my mum doesnt bump into her before me. she's ready for eating her.

xxx

 

[lou_w34]

Hope your feeling better today

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Ohhh let your mum at her If she's anything like my mum she'll never bother you again xx

 

[KaeRit21]

lol, thanks lou, i am actually..hope your okies too , ive only got 20 days til im a mummy

xxxx

 

[lou_w34]

Ahhhhh good!!
Everything always seems better the next day
Yeps im good!

Oh thats sooooo soon! It may be less then 20 anyways!!! Then youll know if bubs is pink or blue

36 for me.... wow! that sounds so little!!

xmas is going to be so good this year heehee

 

[KaeRit21]

yup wonder if my bump is pink or blue...im gettin desperate to know now..this waiting isnt for me!

xxx

 

[lou_w34]

I know! 40 weeks is waaaaaay to long!!! Feel sorry for elephants... their pregnant for something silly like 22 months =/

Im guessing bump is blue!!

 

[woadie]

Have you bought any clothes yet? The suspense must be killing you especially with all the cute baby gear out there! It's already driving me nuts not knowing and I have another three weeks to wait for my 20 week scan

 

[KaeRit21]

only bought gender neutral clothes just now....funny you should say that lou av said blue the whole way thorugh this and have been soooo tempted to buy blue bits and mums had to stop me lol!!


xxx

 

[lou_w34]

I admire people who have the patience to wait, i have none at all!! As soon as i walked in the room for my scan, apart from wanting bubs to be fine all i could think was "i wonder what bubs is????" haha

Haha well you will be grateful to your mum if bubs turns out to be a girl lol My mums banned me from buying more clothes... but only because she said i had too many I guess mums do no best... haha