Need to Vent no where else to turn

[rocemom]

Im currently 18weeks an the father and I have been on again off again for months. Since we started together I have been nothing but supportive. We have been thru so much arguing and not being able to trust each other we argue more than anything. I know we love each other and just havnt been able to come to a common ground
Well on Wed he announced he was moving out becasue he needs to prove to himself he can be self reliant, even thought there is no way he can afford to do it, hell he hasnt been able to help with the bill since he has been living with me and keeps overdrafting his account every week. He his supposed to move on Sunday but hasnt packed anything so I started.
I keep asking him about the baby and being there becasue he is going to miss eveything. He just keeps stating that hes only a couple of towns away and he wont. Since he signed his lease he hasnt been around and has screwed me over on bills and gas to get to and from work after he promised he would help.
Right now all I want is for him to loose my number and forget about me and the baby. I want him out to go away, I have even thought of having papers drawn up for him to sign his parental rights away so he would.
Right now I want to hate him, but cant becasue I do.
I feel like he is leaving me and not giving us a real chance and this baby to be selfish. I dont know what to do cause all I seem to do is cry. Does anyone have some advice. When I had my first child I lost most of my friends and really made any over the past few years so I have no one to turn to.

 

[Ash_P]

Really sorry to hear that u are going thru this. Men are such prats. and the majority of them just think about themselves and dont really canre about anyone else.
Hate for him will come in time, and soon u will realise u r better off without him, he doesnt sound like a very reliable person.

I went thru something similar, so if u wanna chat just pm me and il try be as much help as possible.

Hugs xxx

 

[babybaillie]

((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

Can only hope he will wake up and realise what hes doing to u. He wont have any parental rights to the baby unless u put his name on the birth certf tho. SO thats sumthing to bear in mind if u decide to go down that route. Hope it sorts itself for u soon xx

 

[Kara1989]

Just want to send you a

I know what it's like to be left but you will be a brilliant mum whatever happens and that's what you need to remember. Stay strong and if you want to talk get in contact because I've been through it too.