Right I am 35 and have 3 children 17, 13 and 6 and in oct 2010 i missed a period. Then after about 4 days started spotting so i took pregnacy tests because i felt pregnant all negative, 2 weeks after missed period i went to my GP who did another urine test (No5) and it was negative i told him i felt pregnant and he reasured me i wasnt and booked me in for a scan incase anything else was wrong and also did some blood tests, 1 week later started bleeding but really bad and was in a lot of pain went to out of hours gp she did another test that was also negative but admitted me into hospital because i was tachycardic and in alot of pain.
I had 2 further tests on the ward both negative then had an external and internal scan that showed i had a fibroid, stayed in hosi for 3 days with heavy bleeding, which they put down to the fibroid even though its tiny 1cm in diameter they couldn't explain it. Then when i got home there was a letter off my gp asking me to book an appointment and come in and see them. I did and first thing she said was congratulations your pregnant i explained everything that had gone on and was sent back to hospital with suspected ectopic pregnancy immediately. There i had another test (no9) that said negative so they gave me a further 2 blood tests. Both showed my hcg level was coming down and that i had, had a MC or chemical pregnacy what ever that is.
So for next 3 months tried again and nothing then after my period in Jan decided enough was enough, we had intercourse twice 5th Feb and 14th, never did it in the favorable positions for conceiving never lifted bum for 30mins after. In fact the 5th was 2 days after i should of finished ovulating, I went and got a bath straight after sex and then we out for a drink .
I excepted a new job offer in work was feeling like i was getting my life on track and just concentrating on the 3 kids i already have. I was due on on Thursday 17th Feb, guess what no period now a week late had 7 tests all negative my cycle is like clock work even after the miscarriage it went back to normal, and seeing though i already have 3 kids and only time i was ever late i was pregnant. When i was due on I had the most painful backache and griping period type pain the whole time now its gone and still no menses, so back to Gps i went, this time there listening and i have had a blood test today but scared now that my hcg level is so low hence why its not getting picked up in urine, that maybe i cant sustain a pregnancy or im going through some kind of early menopause or theres something else wrong down below.
The lady who took my blood said that sometimes quite rarely hcg level can be too high and wont show up because the test doesn't understand it, the prozone effect (hook effect), what the hell it that??? I think i might be going mad and actually want my period to come because don't think i could go through another MC anyone else had false negatives??????