so I am a stay at home mum with a two year old toddler. We have a neighbour who lives a completely different lifestyle from us, she is a little bit older, has never had children and like to entertrain and have parties. Sometimes they are dancing and partying untill 5am right above our bedroom. She came once after her party and apologised for the noise and we said we did hear it, but we understand that's what it's like living in a flat. We know our child makes noise too so we didn't make a fuss about it. Now I think we were too friendly as she is complaining to us about the noise from our flat. Yes we have a toddler who likes to scream (for fun) and she can be very loud. She loves doing this high pitch scream, I don't know why. Then she moves on. I go out with her to a toddler group mon, tues, thu and fr morning during the week which lasts till 12, then she eats and has a nap till 14. Then we go out whatever the wheather. She's always asleep by 21. So we are really not around that much. She also sleeps through the night, but might wake up occasionally if she's ill etc but we always attend to her immediately. She also complained about doors banging so I have been really careful about that, sometimes they do get shut by wind. Apparently she had complained to the landlord too but he hasn't said anything to us. He just said that she wanted our flat too, but he chose us for it. Luckily he has four children so he knows what it's like. I think we have pretty thin walls as I can hear her walking and opening doors, the front door is constantly banging with her guests going in and out. The noise doesn't bother us because we accept it, but yes I have no doubt she can hear noise from us and she will continue to hear noise. It's inevitable. I get really annoyed about the neighbour complaining. My husband gets really stressed out by it because its rented by his work so he wants to maintain a good image. I think she is jealous to us, because she wants our flat. All of these complaints started after we got a jaccuzzi outside. I can often see her looking at us playing in the garden. I am wondering how I should deal with a woman like that. I don't want to worry about every little noise at the house. How much toddler noise is unacceptable? We want to start trying for a second one so I can't imagine what she would be like with a baby screaming in the house. Anyone else here had complaints about their noisy babies or toddlers?