Kuji
Mom of 1 & Pregnant w/ #2
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I'm only 3 and a half weeks pregnant right now and there's already a lot of pressure for me to have a girl. At least as far as we know(not 100% sure if it went farther), there's been a line that the eldest has always been a girl ex. Great grandmother is the first born -> Her first born is my grandmother -> Her first born is my mother -> I am my mother's first born; so of course everyone is expecting my first born to also be a girl. And to make it worse, that side of the family only has baby boys between all the cousins and my siblings (6 boys) and people are looking at me, expecting me to break the chain and also follow the first born 'tradition'.
So far, I'm almost convinced I'm having a girl, and I do want one bad. However I'd be just as happy with a boy(although I might be a tad upset at first anyway). What worries me the most is how disappointed people might be if I do have a boy It's just really scary right now.
I also can't lie. I think I would cry a bit if I found out it was a boy. I'm sure I would get over it quick enough, but I guess I feel bad knowing I might be disappointed, even for a little while.
So far, I'm almost convinced I'm having a girl, and I do want one bad. However I'd be just as happy with a boy(although I might be a tad upset at first anyway). What worries me the most is how disappointed people might be if I do have a boy It's just really scary right now.
I also can't lie. I think I would cry a bit if I found out it was a boy. I'm sure I would get over it quick enough, but I guess I feel bad knowing I might be disappointed, even for a little while.