But my OH proposed whilst we were on holiday - on our anniversary. He's always been adamant he doesn't believe in marriage blah, blah but then I find out he has been planning this for ages, bought a gorgeous ring from my fav jewellers in Brighton and has been discussing how to do it with some of our friends. So shocked. I never thought I could get pregnant and now I have two gorgeous boys and now getting married. We even looked at a possible venue today. But all seems like a minefield so I am so glad that this area exists as I already have sooooo many questions!!