catfromaus
Mum to angel Aiden Lynne
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Hi All,
I've never posted on any forum before, and found this site through a google search.
I lost my much wanted baby this week. I was 8 1/2 weeks pregnant. I'd heard the heartbeat before, and was really certain that this was going to be alright. The miscarriage came out of nowhere.
I've been struggling. Everyones response seems to be that I can just try again (In fact, my Dad said "Oh well, next time hey?") as if thats going to suddenly cheer me up. Even my mother, who has been awesome in every other way, seems to think that this is a comforting thing to say.
I had the d/c today, and the hospital gave me no help at all. No access to counselling, no nothing. After I woke up, the doctor didn't even come and speak with me. I was left in a waiting room for 7 hours before they did the procedure, and then was sent home 10 minutes after waking up.
Sorry for the long post. Lots on my mind atm.
Cat
xxx
I've never posted on any forum before, and found this site through a google search.
I lost my much wanted baby this week. I was 8 1/2 weeks pregnant. I'd heard the heartbeat before, and was really certain that this was going to be alright. The miscarriage came out of nowhere.
I've been struggling. Everyones response seems to be that I can just try again (In fact, my Dad said "Oh well, next time hey?") as if thats going to suddenly cheer me up. Even my mother, who has been awesome in every other way, seems to think that this is a comforting thing to say.
I had the d/c today, and the hospital gave me no help at all. No access to counselling, no nothing. After I woke up, the doctor didn't even come and speak with me. I was left in a waiting room for 7 hours before they did the procedure, and then was sent home 10 minutes after waking up.
Sorry for the long post. Lots on my mind atm.
Cat
xxx
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