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juansgirl
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Ok so this is my second day here, my first time trying at this. I am so confused and a wee bit overwhelmed.
I had my first child young, at 19. After our son was 18 months, DH and I were going to try for the next one, I just went off BC and was pregnant within a few months but miscarried. I am now divorced and with my new DH. He does not have children and we have decided to expand our family...
After the miscarriage I went back on BC as my marriage started falling apart and have been on it until now (13 years on birth control) . I went off the pill the weekend of April 16th. My period came April 19th. Totally normal period and wow was a moody. DH and I had sex a few times as we agreed to just let it happen and see where we get..After looking it up on the internet, my most fertile day was the 29th. We had sex a few times that day not knowing it was the most fertile day. According to what I have read, implantation would have happened yesterday if all went good from the 29th.
So here is my confusion:
Anytime I wanted to get my period say I was going on vacation and wanted it to come a week early, I would stop my pill pack early (no I didn't do this often) or I would take the pills back to back without skipping a week. My cycle is bang on, always has been. I just went on the pill to prevent getting pregnant. I stop the pill and a normal period comes within 3 to 4 days. I assume however that since I have been on the pill for so long I am not actually ovulating as I read everywhere this takes a few months most of the time. Seeing as I got my period a few days later does that mean I could have ovulated already? and seeing as my system seems to regualted maybe it didn't need time to adjust as the pill is gone within 24hrs?
Here is whats happening this week and its confusing me:
* I felt bloated sun/mon
* Every morning for 2 hours, usually between 8-11 am I feel just awful and very nauseous. Today being the worse and I really thought I was going to vomit
* The bottom left of my stomach area feels weird, no cramping or anything just weird.Last night I was watching a movie and it flet almost like pinching and pulling. Not enough for alarm but it felt weird like something is going on in there.
I kept looking for the implantation bleed but nothing, never had that the last two times either.
* This being said this week I am so tired (I also have cold)
* I am overly senstive and moody
* there is an huge increase normal discharge
* hot fever like flashes that come and go and make me feel like I need to rest for a moment
* starving during the day but not so much at night - I usually eat for reg - 3 meals a day no snacks.
I tested Tuesday and it was a strong NO - remember please I am so new to this, yes I feel quite stupid about it...lol But I read it might have been a no because implantation may not have happened by then. I was thinking of testing on Mothers day as I am due for AF on the 14th..should I even bother? Could I be pregnant? Or am I just wanting it so bad and looking to far into things?
I am so confused, please help and share your thoughts with me...
Thank you
I had my first child young, at 19. After our son was 18 months, DH and I were going to try for the next one, I just went off BC and was pregnant within a few months but miscarried. I am now divorced and with my new DH. He does not have children and we have decided to expand our family...
After the miscarriage I went back on BC as my marriage started falling apart and have been on it until now (13 years on birth control) . I went off the pill the weekend of April 16th. My period came April 19th. Totally normal period and wow was a moody. DH and I had sex a few times as we agreed to just let it happen and see where we get..After looking it up on the internet, my most fertile day was the 29th. We had sex a few times that day not knowing it was the most fertile day. According to what I have read, implantation would have happened yesterday if all went good from the 29th.
So here is my confusion:
Anytime I wanted to get my period say I was going on vacation and wanted it to come a week early, I would stop my pill pack early (no I didn't do this often) or I would take the pills back to back without skipping a week. My cycle is bang on, always has been. I just went on the pill to prevent getting pregnant. I stop the pill and a normal period comes within 3 to 4 days. I assume however that since I have been on the pill for so long I am not actually ovulating as I read everywhere this takes a few months most of the time. Seeing as I got my period a few days later does that mean I could have ovulated already? and seeing as my system seems to regualted maybe it didn't need time to adjust as the pill is gone within 24hrs?
Here is whats happening this week and its confusing me:
* I felt bloated sun/mon
* Every morning for 2 hours, usually between 8-11 am I feel just awful and very nauseous. Today being the worse and I really thought I was going to vomit
* The bottom left of my stomach area feels weird, no cramping or anything just weird.Last night I was watching a movie and it flet almost like pinching and pulling. Not enough for alarm but it felt weird like something is going on in there.
I kept looking for the implantation bleed but nothing, never had that the last two times either.
* This being said this week I am so tired (I also have cold)
* I am overly senstive and moody
* there is an huge increase normal discharge
* hot fever like flashes that come and go and make me feel like I need to rest for a moment
* starving during the day but not so much at night - I usually eat for reg - 3 meals a day no snacks.
I tested Tuesday and it was a strong NO - remember please I am so new to this, yes I feel quite stupid about it...lol But I read it might have been a no because implantation may not have happened by then. I was thinking of testing on Mothers day as I am due for AF on the 14th..should I even bother? Could I be pregnant? Or am I just wanting it so bad and looking to far into things?
I am so confused, please help and share your thoughts with me...
Thank you
