New here! Secretly TTC Baby #2 for 4 months, No luck & no one to talk to :(

[TTCnumba2]

New here
Im 26 and my partner is 21.
We have been TTC baby number 2 for 4 months now.
In the second month I had an early bleed which then stopped for one day and returned as a normal period the next day = disappointing.
4th month my period came 1 week early (im usually very regular on a 28 day cycle). I had high hopes of it being implantation bleeding, and although it was pretty heavy (and clots) I tested 3 days after my period WAS due and had a negative result
And with my 'over googling', I figured this could also have been an early miscarriage?

Just feeling alone in this at the moment as we aren't telling anyone.
I have a doc appointment this arvo for a check up and pap smear as my last one did come back abnormal

 

[Flossie_Aus]

Welcome My hubby feels too pressured when I talk babies too much, so I get my fix here. The ladies are lovely and much friendlier than any other TTC/Parenting forum I've found. I hope you find some comfort here. Sending you babydust!

 

[TTCnumba2]

Thanks so much
Yes my partner is pretty nervous (excited too) about trying for another so he's pretty quiet about it haha. I feel like I'm bugging him with it all the time!

 

[Bevziibubble]

Hi and welcome to bnb!

 

[TTCnumba2]

thankyou

 

[wifeybby]

Hi! I'm new to posting on here too We haven't told anyone that we want to start TTC, and definitely don't plan to either - lol. I know we all have our reasons for not talking about it to others, and that's what makes these forums so nice. I don't want the pressure of everyone asking "hows that going" every time I see them, nor do I want their "advice" or opinion... But anyways - you can talk to me if you need to vent!

 

[Eve]

and welcome