NEW List of TTC Chart Ladies

[Fish&Chips]

Yay f&c i hope i will be days behind you with a bfp and everyone else get their +ive too X

It would be amazing! X

 

[rmsh1]

Stinas I could agree more and WAB you should read back month after month after month before you give you input as you just joined the group and don't understand the situation fully.

Someone repeating something month after month is fine. New people join this site every single day, old posts may not be seen, and the exact person that can help you might not come along til tomorrow.

Note what this TTC forum is actually about -
"Trying to conceive your first or doing it again? Discuss trying to get pregnant, ovulation and fertility issues. Share and seek advice through your TTC journey with others."

We are all here for the same reasons, to talk about our fears and hopes, to find like minded people, and just to discuss any issues we might have that others might have been through.

I have learnt a wealth of knowledge since joining, and find the whole forum extremely useful. Keep up all the questions ladies, they all help!

 

[lizlovelust]

Because of the very rude girls here i will no longer be coming to this thread, i ask questions mainly to see if other ladies have gone through the same thing, no need to act like a high school girl and cause drama in whats supposed rto be a supportive site.

 

[rmsh1]

Because of the very rude girls here i will no longer be coming to this thread, i ask questions mainly to see if other ladies have gone through the same thing, no need to act like a high school girl and cause drama in whats supposed rto be a supportive site.

Liz feel free to ask away any questions you like! Don't let anyone push you out

 

[Wobbles]

Liz - well you're not able to get pregnant now so you're not really making any sense...

What a lovely thing to say!

Ok is BnB worse now that they did that upgrade or is it just me ?

We have some teething problems with the server move which is very common. The tech team are aware of this and we hope to have the forum running smoother than before when these have been ironed out.

Liz - I agree with the other girls. If you wont go to the doc now, what makes you think you will go later? Its better to know the truth rather than going through the same thing monthly. We CANT answer the questions you are asking....wish we could, but we have no clue whats going on in your body...the doctor can. Its everyones fear of the doc saying you cant get preg, but we all go! Your super young, so its rare for that to be the case...but you should really go and get a full check up...mostly for a piece of mind.

How insensitive! BabyandBump is to share thoughts and questions that niggle in the back of your head, a place to let them out and overall SUPPORT and friendships. You may not be able to answer the questions from a medical point of view this member has entered onto the forum but is there any need for this? No is the answer! A woman feared of hearing the worst, paranoid, hopeful and frustrated all in one go and you think it's as easy as that ... no it's not for everyone actually. Age has no relevance in most cases to any infertility problems that are possible, what a silly thing to say.

it's better for me now but it double posted for me too! I hate BnB sometimes!

Charming! A lot of effort and time has always been put in to make sure the forum runs smoothly. With up to 20,000 daily this isn't a simple job.

We are not being bitchy...When the same questions get asked over and over and cant be answered...it gets to the point that no one wants to answer them. Plus when the advice gets given and overlooked because one does not care nor want to do it....it gets annoying month after month.
Its not being mean......if you want to fully understand where we are all coming from....look back and read the posts from the last couple months. You will for sure understand. And...I dont think giving someone advice to go to the doc is being bitchy. Its actually pretty supportive if you ask me.

Stinas I could agree more and WAB you should read back month after month after month before you give you input as you just joined the group and don't understand the situation fully.

Nothing like being tactful is there with some people!

If you find yourself in a position where you just can't be bothered with some members I'd say your on the wrong forum. BnB is ongoing support. What you say and how you say it like someone else said is important and I just find the last 2 posts quoted here pure rude and no mistake. I don't care how many times a member has asked similar questions on each cycle, so what, it's what BnB is for. Who are you girls to say different?

 

[lizlovelust]

Aww okay ill stay, if they dont like what i ask they can ignore me and not say anything....


AFM...

My CM has a tinge of pink, no other symptoms but sore breasts....

 

[Faythe]

Liz - why are you scared? If you're scared of the doctor you probably shouldnt get pregnant in the first place because you'll be going to the doctor often.

Jeez, that's a HORRID thing to say to someone.

 

[WantingABubba]

WantingABubba did you test agian?!! i seen a line on your hpt..

AF came hun x

 

[WantingABubba]

It's not what was said, it was how it was said. But, whatever, I'm not going to argue about it. If you can't say things to Liz without making it sound like you're putting her down, then I think it's better not to say anything at all. But that's just me.

What 'situation' could there be that means one has to be so rude about what they say to/about her?

If it's just a case of she always asks for help, but doesn't want to go doctors - then I don't see that as an excuse to be rude to her.

I agree here actually, telling Liz to go the doctor is good advice if she is really worried, but telling her she shouldnt be getting pregnant if she is scared of doctors is a nasty thing to say.

Liz, depending on how long you have had these fears for, then yes you should go to the doctor. They might even just tell you what you are experiencing is completely normal.

My cycle has been far longer than ever this cycle, currently on CD29, when my normal cycle is only 34 days long. I finally got a positive OPK yesterday, so I am looking at a 42 day cycle this time round. I have moments each day where I am worried about what is going on to suddenly make my cycle so long. But if it keeps happening, I will go to the doctor and just see what they say.

Glad it's not just me. For a sec, I thought I was just being 'difficult'.

Do you temp, hun?

As for your cycle being so long, is there anything that might have happened to possibly delay O?

 

[WantingABubba]

I know I'm a newbie too and haven't read the whole thread but I agree with Wanting. I don't want to help fuel an argument but however annoying or repetitive a post may be we don't know the posters full situation or how vulnerable they are. A slightly badly phrased post could have really negative affects.

Wanting sorry to hear about the spotting today. I really hope you get your bfp next month.

Thank you. It's nice to know I'm not going crazy.

And it's okay I hope so too x

 

[WantingABubba]

Liz - well you're not able to get pregnant now so you're not really making any sense...

What a lovely thing to say!

Ok is BnB worse now that they did that upgrade or is it just me ?

We have some teething problems with the server move which is very common. The tech team are aware of this and we hope to have the forum running smoother than before when these have been ironed out.

Liz - I agree with the other girls. If you wont go to the doc now, what makes you think you will go later? Its better to know the truth rather than going through the same thing monthly. We CANT answer the questions you are asking....wish we could, but we have no clue whats going on in your body...the doctor can. Its everyones fear of the doc saying you cant get preg, but we all go! Your super young, so its rare for that to be the case...but you should really go and get a full check up...mostly for a piece of mind.

How insensitive! BabyandBump is to share thoughts and questions that niggle in the back of your head, a place to let them out and overall SUPPORT and friendships. You may not be able to answer the questions from a medical point of view this member has entered onto the forum but is there any need for this? No is the answer! A woman feared of hearing the worst, paranoid, hopeful and frustrated all in one go and you think it's as easy as that ... no it's not for everyone actually. Age has no relevance in most cases to any infertility problems that are possible, what a silly thing to say.

it's better for me now but it double posted for me too! I hate BnB sometimes!

Charming! A lot of effort and time has always been put in to make sure the forum runs smoothly. With up to 20,000 daily this isn't a simple job.

We are not being bitchy...When the same questions get asked over and over and cant be answered...it gets to the point that no one wants to answer them. Plus when the advice gets given and overlooked because one does not care nor want to do it....it gets annoying month after month.
Its not being mean......if you want to fully understand where we are all coming from....look back and read the posts from the last couple months. You will for sure understand. And...I dont think giving someone advice to go to the doc is being bitchy. Its actually pretty supportive if you ask me.

Stinas I could agree more and WAB you should read back month after month after month before you give you input as you just joined the group and don't understand the situation fully.

Nothing like being tactful is there with some people!

If you find yourself in a position where you just can't be bothered with some members I'd say your on the wrong forum. BnB is ongoing support. What you say and how you say it like someone else said is important and I just find the last 2 posts quoted here pure rude and no mistake. I don't care how many times a member has asked similar questions on each cycle, so what, it's what BnB is for. Who are you girls to say different?

Thank you, Wobbles. I'm glad you came in and stopped all this, because I was afraid of causing an argument, but what I saw was just not right, or fair.

Hope you're okay, Liz

 

[WantingABubba]

Because of the very rude girls here i will no longer be coming to this thread, i ask questions mainly to see if other ladies have gone through the same thing, no need to act like a high school girl and cause drama in whats supposed rto be a supportive site.

I'm still not sure if you've even ovulated this cycle..

 

[lizlovelust]

It's not what was said, it was how it was said. But, whatever, I'm not going to argue about it. If you can't say things to Liz without making it sound like you're putting her down, then I think it's better not to say anything at all. But that's just me.

What 'situation' could there be that means one has to be so rude about what they say to/about her?

If it's just a case of she always asks for help, but doesn't want to go doctors - then I don't see that as an excuse to be rude to her.

I agree here actually, telling Liz to go the doctor is good advice if she is really worried, but telling her she shouldnt be getting pregnant if she is scared of doctors is a nasty thing to say.

Liz, depending on how long you have had these fears for, then yes you should go to the doctor. They might even just tell you what you are experiencing is completely normal.

My cycle has been far longer than ever this cycle, currently on CD29, when my normal cycle is only 34 days long. I finally got a positive OPK yesterday, so I am looking at a 42 day cycle this time round. I have moments each day where I am worried about what is going on to suddenly make my cycle so long. But if it keeps happening, I will go to the doctor and just see what they say.

Glad it's not just me. For a sec, I thought I was just being 'difficult'.

Do you temp, hun?

As for your cycle being so long, is there anything that might have happened to possibly delay O?

Im not sure why my cycle is so long, i do temp, charts in sig...i havent done anything diff this cycle...

 

[WantingABubba]

It's not what was said, it was how it was said. But, whatever, I'm not going to argue about it. If you can't say things to Liz without making it sound like you're putting her down, then I think it's better not to say anything at all. But that's just me.

What 'situation' could there be that means one has to be so rude about what they say to/about her?

If it's just a case of she always asks for help, but doesn't want to go doctors - then I don't see that as an excuse to be rude to her.

I agree here actually, telling Liz to go the doctor is good advice if she is really worried, but telling her she shouldnt be getting pregnant if she is scared of doctors is a nasty thing to say.

Liz, depending on how long you have had these fears for, then yes you should go to the doctor. They might even just tell you what you are experiencing is completely normal.

My cycle has been far longer than ever this cycle, currently on CD29, when my normal cycle is only 34 days long. I finally got a positive OPK yesterday, so I am looking at a 42 day cycle this time round. I have moments each day where I am worried about what is going on to suddenly make my cycle so long. But if it keeps happening, I will go to the doctor and just see what they say.

Glad it's not just me. For a sec, I thought I was just being 'difficult'.

Do you temp, hun?

As for your cycle being so long, is there anything that might have happened to possibly delay O?

Im not sure why my cycle is so long, i do temp, charts in sig...i havent done anything diff this cycle...

Sorry hun, my reply was directed towards rmsh1 x

 

[Hotpink_Mom]

Blah i'm so tired

 

[WantingABubba]

I have cramps

 

[sharnw]

Hello ladies

I have a question regards sleeping an temping..

Right..

My usual wake up and temping time is 5:30am.
Today i woke up at 5:24am. I decided to temp and I think it read 36.53 degrees Celsius. I shut my eyes and just laid in bed. My alarm went off at 5:30am (my usual time of wake up an temp) and it read 36.63 degrees Celsius... Which one do i chart..?? would 5 minutes make a difference?

XO

 

[FngrsCrossed]

izlovelust- I don't think you have OV yet, I think it may just be a shy egg .

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Wanting I have been trying to post since earlier, site is a little slow today and when I tried to get on earlier it was down for maintanence. So all I have to say is LMFO about the chinese by comment.

I found all of the info you posted to be interesting. Not to mention hilarious with the guy hiding the heroin in his foreskin. smart guy...well er kinda'.

I went out of town on Sunday afternoon and I see that I missed a lot by being away. I am sorry. I hope everything remains ok between you ladies. You all seem like such good buddies.<--for all of you ladies. Stress can get to a person sometimes, and the stress of TTc is even worse.
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And a very excited congrats to you ladies with the BFP's!! I am super excitedfor you ladies...Hotpink and F&C!! Not to worry gals we are right behind you!!

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Hello ladies

I have a question regards sleeping an temping..

Right..

My usual wake up and temping time is 5:30am.
Today i woke up at 5:24am. I decided to temp and I think it read 36.53 degrees Celsius. I shut my eyes and just laid in bed. My alarm went off at 5:30am (my usual time of wake up an temp) and it read 36.63 degrees Celsius... Which one do i chart..?? would 5 minutes make a difference?

XO

Hi Sharn

I think the first temp would be more accurate. You are not the only one who thinks about using the second temp instead. lol I will admit it is more appealing than the first. 5 minutes difference shouldn't hurt at all. You could always make a note of it and if you need to change it then you can.


oooooo Sharn you got a dip at 10dpo!! are you thinking implantation?

 

[lizlovelust]

izlovelust- I don't think you have OV yet, I think it may just be a shy egg .

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Wanting I have been trying to post since earlier, site is a little slow today and when I tried to get on earlier it was down for maintanence. So all I have to say is LMFO about the chinese by comment.

I found all of the info you posted to be interesting. Not to mention hilarious with the guy hiding the heroin in his foreskin. smart guy...well er kinda'.

I went out of town on Sunday afternoon and I see that I missed a lot by being away. I am sorry. I hope everything remains ok between you ladies. You all seem like such good buddies.<--for all of you ladies. Stress can get to a person sometimes, and the stress of TTc is even worse.
--------------------

And a very excited congrats to you ladies with the BFP's!! I am super excitedfor you ladies...Hotpink and F&C!! Not to worry gals we are right behind you!!

why do you think im having pinkish brownish CM? Loads of CM with just a tinge of pink/brokwn?