New & Terrified

[Younglutonmum]

Hiya Everyone

My names Kelly, im 20 & expecting my first baby

I was over the moon when I first found out I was expecting but now im just scared. My partner left me. He couldnt deal with my constant mood swings. I have no family either as they have all turned their backs on me, believing im making a huge mistake.

I feel so low at the moment when all I want to do is enjoy my pregnancy.

To make matters worse my landlady changed the locks on my house n chucked out all of my stuff. Im now worrying how im going to get the money 4 a deposit on a new place 2gether b4 baby arrives!

I know it sounds like a total nightmare, but am trying to keep smiling. Got my Little Lyons 2 look forward to

Kelly & Bump __X

 

[Sarah88]

Aw hun, hope things get better for u!
I'm 20 as well and can't wait to be a mum. Happy to chat to u whenever u need it.

 

[anita665]

Sounds like you're having a rough time. I'm sure things will get better before baby gets here though. How far gone are you? Can't the council find you somewhere?

 

[Younglutonmum]

Im 12 weeks now. The council can put me in a hostel with other mums n mums 2b. Not being snobby but i've seen the hostel n it's awful. Really dirty n constant partys going on. Not the sort of place I want 4 me n my baby. I know the council provides a deposit scheme where they pay ur deposit n u pay them back in installments but I have 2 wait 4 my JSA 2 come through b4 I apply 2 that. Its very hard

 

[anita665]

Stupid council's. No matter which area you live in they're always unhelpful! I'm going to guess you're from Luton too - no offence to anyone from there but I have to say it's one of the scariest places I've ever been!!

At least you're still early in your pregnancy though so you have plenty of time to get sorted.

 

[Younglutonmum]

I know. They are so rude 2 me when I go down there. They make me feel like im scum of the earth. They dont seem 2 understand how stressful it all is.

Im staying with friends in London at the mo n having to constantly travel down 2 Luton 4 appoinments n stuff. Grrrr

 

[Nikkinoonoo]

So sorry you're having a tough time of it hun, hope things get better for you soon xXx

 

[xclairex]

sorry to hear your going through a ruff patch hun but im sure you and your baby will be fine as soon as u settle we are all hear if u need a chat

 

[Vickie]

So sorry you are having a rough time of it, especially being pregnant for the first time.

Welcome to the forum. I hope you can find the support system here that you need

 

[YummyMummy2be]

Hi hun, welcome to bnb
Congrats on ure lil bump
Sorry to hear ure goin through a ruff time at mo!
If u wanna chat msg me
xx

 

[leeanne]

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

I am so sorry that things are hard for you right now. Best wishes that all will be ok!

 

[Michy]

Hope things get better for you soon, congrats tho!

 

[Younglutonmum]

Just wanna thank everyone 4 there nice messages

Kinda made me cry lol

When I fell pregnant I was just so happy but now it's a total mess. Just wanna scream!!

__X

 

[Rumpskin]

Hi Kelly

Welcome to B&B. Congrats on your baby bump.

I am also sorry for the crappy time you are having at the mo.

Do you have any family around to help you?

xx

 

[Younglutonmum]

Nope no family at all im afraid

My mates dnt really understand. They all young n only care bout bein on da piss lol. Im da 1st mummy

__X

 

[lynz]

welcome to baby and bump

 

[parisbeach]

well kelly good luck with the pregnancy sorry about all the stresses you have had. I tryin to concieve so i stressed at moment, so if you feel like having a rant, i am a good listener.

donnax

 

[Suz]

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[elles28]

hope things get better for you soon

 

[Arcanegirl]

Welcome to Baby and Bump