New to this .. need some advice DESPERATELY!

I can't believe people are accusing you of being selfish because you want to keep your baby. That's selfish in itself and in a much worse way, they are trying push you into doing something you don't want to do! At the end of the day, it's your baby and eventually, when you get your own place (I presume you live with your parents?) it'll be you that has responsibility for the baby and they can get on with their jolly lives!

You won't be at home(??) forever and you are legally an adult, so it's completely and utterly your decision. For them to pressurize you into aborting your own child is completely selfish; either you be 'selfish' by needing a bit of support for the first few months, or they be selfish for forcing you into terminating your baby!

Be strong and make the decision for YOU, no-one else.

:hugs:

xxxxx

P.S If you needed to find somewhere else to live, you could always get put on the council housing list and go see how they can help you. :)
 
Hi hun.
Like everyone else said, the decision is ultimately yours. If you want to keep the baby, then keep it. It's YOUR baby. I've heard from many girls that they have regretted their abortions, especially when they were pressured into it. I'm 17 and am pregnant with my second, which I am also keeping. So if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here. Good luck.
 

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