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[Redthunder]

Hey everyone!

I'm only new to this site . I am 25 weeks pregnant and 18 years old. I didn't plan this pregnancy .. Obviously .. And was completely surprised.. I've actually been having a hard time and feel so lonely sometimes.. I can't wait to meet my baby boy tho .. Ino that once he gets here everything will be ok .. I was looking on the site and decided to join because you guys seem really nice and it will be nice to talk to people going through the same or similar situation as I am
Thanks in advance
Xx

 

[ClairAye]

Welcome and congratulations

I'm not pregnant anymore but still stalk the thread

I'm Clair, 20 and I have a son called Jason who is almost 2.5 and a daughter called Lily who is 10 months

 

[MummyMana]

Congratulations any ideas on names yet?

 

[Redthunder]

Thank you!
Haha I do the same iv been stalking so many sites and this is defo the best .. I was on another one and they judged every teen !!
Ahh I love them names!! (My name is Lily) ..

I am really bad at the whole name part! I know his middle name will be Oliver .. I like a few names but none really stand out!

Ps. Yer posts make me really happy I joined!!

 

[MummyMana]

I'm glad you're happy to join it's a shame there are some judgemental sites

Oliver is a really lovely, classic name (I may be biased though as my middle name is Olive )

 

[Redthunder]

Ino yea it is a shame! I was reading posts and ppl were so horrible calling this girl all sorts because she got pregnant at 17 or 18 ..

Awh thanks!! Haha very similar

Your picture of your daughter is so cute!!

 

[MummyMana]

That's just wrong support forums should be just that - support! People being judgemental really riles me up! I know people from a broad spectrum of ages and backgrounds who are fantastic mothers! Just as you will be I'm sure

And thankyou! I wish I could put up a recent picture of her, she's 19 months now and a genius

 

[ClairAye]

BnB was the only teen site I liked! I had just turned 17 when I joined (almost 3 years ago!!) and have never been judged on my age

Lol, I love the name Lily! Love Oliver too

 

[Redthunder]

Exactly! I just had to leave !! They were grown women picking on younger people .. I look at it as everyone makes mistakes and it could happen to anyone really .. Awh thank you! I really hope so I'm just scared I won't no what to do! I'm a single mom to be too so super nervous/lonely !!

Oh wow !! She looks a right cutie!

 

[Redthunder]

Thanks!! Any suggestions on what first name I should have to go with Oliver ? Ha .. I would really appreciate the help lol

 

[ClairAye]

Aw, I'm a single mum too, I have been almost 5 months now! Some days you crave adult company but your little boy will be your best ever friend!

How about Jamie? Joke! My favourite boys names are Alfie and Caleb but I don't think they go! I'm rubbish with names too, so picky!

 

[MummyMana]

I wouldn't even say it is a mistake, more a blessing

Hmm...

Aaron Oliver
Nathan Oliver
Callum Oliver
Sidney Oliver

I think a 2 syllable first name flowers best with a 3 syllable midle name, plus something with hard sounds as Oliver is quite a softly flowing name

 

[Redthunder]

Awh really ? It must be hard sometimes .. I feel like il never have that adult company again ha! .. Yea I think once my baby is here it will be ok It feels like iv so long to wait!

Haha Jamie Oliver! lol .. I like Alfie but I don't no if Oliver goes

 

[MummyMana]

Of course you will have adult company you may not have a partner but you still have friends and family

 

[Redthunder]

Oh yea I defo look at my baby as a blessing but this girl clearly sed she made a mistake .. Ohh I like Aaron ! Yea my family are extremely supportive!!

 

[ClairAye]

Definitely do not see mine as mistakes, they were the best things to happen in my life I don't get much adult company minus my parents but there are baby groups

 

[x__amour]

Hi Lily! Welcome to BnB and congratulations on your pregnancy!

I'm Shannon, 23. I have an almost 4 year old named Victoria "Tori" & a 6 month old named Bryson.
I was your age when I had Tori so I know how you feel.

Hoping you have a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancy. See you around!