New TTC and possibly already pregnant?

[Lenateacup]

Hello, everyone! My name is Lena, I'm Norwegian but I currently live in Japan with my fiance, whom I met here. We're planning to move to Norway in a couple of months.
I decided to join this forum since me and my fiance are finally in the place for us where it's completely fine if we conceive. My fiance wants to wait until we're married, but now that's only 3 months away and because of my health condition(I have Athrogryposis Multiplex Congenita), we're anxious to wait any longer. Doctors have told me to get into the babymaking business ASAP because my condition worsens with age and I'm basically at my prime when it comes to child-bearing. They told me this when I was 22, now I'm 25 so I'm feeling the time pressure. And as if that wasn't enough, I have a biological clock that's going off the chart, haha.

Well, this cycle I'm feeling a bit strange at 9 dpo, with everything from extreme fatigue to breast tenderness to stringy cm(which I NEVER ever have except before and during ov). I'm hoping but I'm not going to test until af is due later this week.

I see so much support and tips in here, I think this will be a great place for me in this journey.

 

[Unicornwoman]

Hi! I'm currently counting the days after ovulating, too. This is my first time trying since my miscarriage in April, so I don't know if it's wishful thinking or not, but I've been feeling some strange cramps and twinges in the last couple days. I'm only 4 DPO, but I've had a not only the cramps that continued past ovulation, but also some fatigue and headaches. My AF is due on July 30, but I don't know if I can wait til then to test. Last time I got a BFP on 8 DPO (faint, but there!).

Good luck to you!

 

[dizzy65]

welcome to bnb.. good luck

 

[Lenateacup]

Hi! I'm currently counting the days after ovulating, too. This is my first time trying since my miscarriage in April, so I don't know if it's wishful thinking or not, but I've been feeling some strange cramps and twinges in the last couple days. I'm only 4 DPO, but I've had a not only the cramps that continued past ovulation, but also some fatigue and headaches. My AF is due on July 30, but I don't know if I can wait til then to test. Last time I got a BFP on 8 DPO (faint, but there!).

Good luck to you!

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Things are looking good for you with symptoms and all, I hope we both get a BFP this cycle! Waiting to test feels like a lifetime!! I really want to test now, at 11 dpo but I'm just so afraid to be disappointed by the test, so instead I'm waiting to see if AF stops by or not. She's due tomorrow, according to my calendar, but since my OV was later than usual this cycle, I think I can expect it on Friday..

Good luck to you, too!!

 

[Unicornwoman]

Oh had major sharp pains yesterday at 5 DPO, but today at 6 DPO only the faintest kind of "sore" feeling. :/ Ugh. Waiting and not knowing sucks so bad!

Keep us updated when you finally test!

 

[Bevziibubble]

Hi and welcome to bnb! Good luck