hi all, I'm new to this, I just wanted to explain a lil about my situation and well see what you all think....apologies for how long it is and if it don't make sense I'm not very good at explain it on paper So to speak,
ok So me and the ex was together for nearly 3 years, we lived together most of that time and broke up and end of Nov but he kept playing games acting as if we was together,then in Jan he wanted me out as he found a girl he used to share the bed with me still and would text her with me right there knowing how much it hurt (i couldn't sleep downstairs as my boy had his cot in our room because his room had bad damp), I was hurt as I still loved him but I moved out and I felt fine I was happy he came around most days to see lil one, but one day he came around and made a move on me I told him no that I didn't just want to be abit if fun but then he made a move again and I gave in ( I guess cuz I still loved him) but suddenly he stopped said he couldn't and that he was sorry and rushed out the door, I text and asked what's goin on he told me he slept with someone else...I got over it and we decided to try again but living separately, it was going well and we was both happy no arguing or anything, but then after awhile I found out he was seeing someone else whilst seeing me at same time, I was hurt but I got on with things for my boys sake, he suddenly stopped coming around So much my son would be lucky to see him once a week,I was angry at how he could drop our sin So easily and do this to him, I remeber one day when I had our dog around and the dog git funny with lil one started snarling at him So I rang the ex explaining and sale him to pick the dog up he told me to fuck of he was busy seeing his gf, So my dad dropped the dog at his, anyway I got fed up I started thinking about how he treated our sin one night So next day went solicitors to stop all access and my solicitor said Teresa nothing we can do until he makes first move So I ignored my ex them one day he came around after a couple months demanding to see our boy I said sort it threw a solicitor he then booted my door and left, I let him see him on his first bday as I felt guilty for my son not to see his dad in his bday So he came around for about and hour then went, well its been letters passed yo solicitors for 8months, now he sees my son for an hour a week supervised until he has completed his parenting and anger management courses,
he was abusive in the relationship and he treated our son like rubbish he fell asleep when I was giving birth I came out same day and did every night feed since that day, I did everything all the nappy changing, baths, clothed etc all whilst he sat on pc my son would crawl up to him for attention and he would get ignored if he cried the ex would tell him to shut the f*** up,
I'm not sure if what I put had made sense it prob don't as I'm not good at writing the situation down Slut more happened and it was a lot worse but thats a sortish version, I hope you all don't think bad of me because iv had good resins to try and stop access, he now only wants to see his son So he looks good for his family and fiance, I may come across as a jealous ex but I'm not I have Jo feelings at all toward him in that way,
please feel free to ask questions as I know I haven't made much sense,
thanks x
ok So me and the ex was together for nearly 3 years, we lived together most of that time and broke up and end of Nov but he kept playing games acting as if we was together,then in Jan he wanted me out as he found a girl he used to share the bed with me still and would text her with me right there knowing how much it hurt (i couldn't sleep downstairs as my boy had his cot in our room because his room had bad damp), I was hurt as I still loved him but I moved out and I felt fine I was happy he came around most days to see lil one, but one day he came around and made a move on me I told him no that I didn't just want to be abit if fun but then he made a move again and I gave in ( I guess cuz I still loved him) but suddenly he stopped said he couldn't and that he was sorry and rushed out the door, I text and asked what's goin on he told me he slept with someone else...I got over it and we decided to try again but living separately, it was going well and we was both happy no arguing or anything, but then after awhile I found out he was seeing someone else whilst seeing me at same time, I was hurt but I got on with things for my boys sake, he suddenly stopped coming around So much my son would be lucky to see him once a week,I was angry at how he could drop our sin So easily and do this to him, I remeber one day when I had our dog around and the dog git funny with lil one started snarling at him So I rang the ex explaining and sale him to pick the dog up he told me to fuck of he was busy seeing his gf, So my dad dropped the dog at his, anyway I got fed up I started thinking about how he treated our sin one night So next day went solicitors to stop all access and my solicitor said Teresa nothing we can do until he makes first move So I ignored my ex them one day he came around after a couple months demanding to see our boy I said sort it threw a solicitor he then booted my door and left, I let him see him on his first bday as I felt guilty for my son not to see his dad in his bday So he came around for about and hour then went, well its been letters passed yo solicitors for 8months, now he sees my son for an hour a week supervised until he has completed his parenting and anger management courses,
he was abusive in the relationship and he treated our son like rubbish he fell asleep when I was giving birth I came out same day and did every night feed since that day, I did everything all the nappy changing, baths, clothed etc all whilst he sat on pc my son would crawl up to him for attention and he would get ignored if he cried the ex would tell him to shut the f*** up,
I'm not sure if what I put had made sense it prob don't as I'm not good at writing the situation down Slut more happened and it was a lot worse but thats a sortish version, I hope you all don't think bad of me because iv had good resins to try and stop access, he now only wants to see his son So he looks good for his family and fiance, I may come across as a jealous ex but I'm not I have Jo feelings at all toward him in that way,
please feel free to ask questions as I know I haven't made much sense,
thanks x
