Newly Pregnant after Loss

[barbikins]

Hey Ladies,

I just found out I'm pregnant (yay!) & I'm also a survivor of post-natal loss of our baby girl. I never thought I'd be nervous about the pregnancy already. But I"m already afraid of "what if I have a miscarriage? or my Beta doesn't double?". I never felt this way when I was pregnant with my girl. I never gave it a second thought that maybe I would have a miscarriage. Anyone else have felt this way after getting pregnant after loosing their baby? I never had a miscarriage so I dont understand why I'm already stressing out?

Thanks ladies xo

 

[Starry Night]

I haven't had a post-natal loss but didn't want to read and run. I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl.

Pregnancy is scary for anyone, I think, who has been forced to face the reality that not all babies grow up to be old or even see their first birthday.

 

[Maxparedesmom]

Im sorry for ur loss and congrats on ur new pregnancy I'm scared always.. I lost my son at 19 weeks 5 days ., I also never had a second thought that anything could or would go wrong. Since my first pregnancy Was so easy .. But now I seem to be scared all the time. I think it's normal and it prolly won't ever go away but I try to think happy
Things and not scare myself so much I'm not happy to be pregnant again.. I hope this helps a little ..

 

[barbikins]

Hi ladies thanks!
And Max I get it. You don't want to ruin this experience. I figured my worry would start around 30 weeks when I went into premature labor. But no. Already worried. Gah. I hope I can find some peace & not worry too much.

 

[Maxparedesmom]

I thought the same thing. That the beginning I wouldn't worry and it would be bad around 20 weeks but I was wrong lol. Every twinge and stuff just scares me I loose this baby .. My first was from a previous relationship so I worry my husband And I won't be able to have a baby together ..