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[FLU77ERBYE]

Morning ladies.

Well what a night I have had, Me and my OH split up and we have our 10 month old daughter together. As you can see I am currently 5 weeks pregnant. My ex has decided that he cannot cope with 2 children and has basically ended it.

I spent all last night sobbing my heart out. We have been seperated for almost 4 months but have stayed close for our daughters sake. Now I am going to be a single mum of 2 under 2. I feel so low its unreal at the moment.

xx

 

[Laura2919]

I'm sorry that FOB doesnt think he will cope with two children. Did you split 4 months ago and officially last night I am a bit confused?



I hope you can work through it and if you cant then you can do it alone.

 

[jessrabbit]

Sorry to hear your news. Here for you if you need us x

 

[abernathie]

 

[teal]

xx

 

[FLU77ERBYE]

Thanks for your support ladies. What happened was We split up 'offically' In June. But we had a one night fling last month and now I have told him I am pregnant he doesnt want to know. We have always stayed on good terms for our daughter. But now I'm pg he doesnt know how to cope. He suffers with quite severe ADHD.

xx

 

[Laura2919]

Oh I am sorry hun.

Its hard when you go back there. I hope you can sort something out. xx

 

[Mally01]

I'm sorry to hear that. A lot of us are in the same boat too, so we understand how you feel. I think most women would never even dream of thinking 'I can't cope' and leave their babies, we just don't have that selfish luxury. It makes me mad that men can just change their mind as and when they please about something as serious as a little life, it just sucks. If they don't want another baby or a baby at all, they should take responsibility the moment they have sex and if they don't, they should be a real man and deal with the consequences. Hugs xx

 

[bump#1]

Claire you are so lovely and a fantastic mummy to Jorja. I'm sure you will be fine and will have lots of support from your friends and family. Sounds like OH either needs time to comes to term with it or he's being a coward. After all it takes 2 to make a baby. X