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Thanks in advance for reading! My DD is an awesome nighttime sleeper generally. from 5 months she started fighting me rocking her to sleep so I tried putting her in her own cot and leaving and lo and behold she happily went to sleep. She still does that now and even waves and says good night some evenings when she’s already tired before her planned bedtime around 7. She normally sleeps 12 hours exactly in one stretch. Butttttttttt if she does wake it’s hell. She hates being rocked. She hates being in our bed. But she hates me leaving her. She wants me to pat her whilst she lays in her cot, which I do but as soon as I stop even after an hour she wakes! So if she wakes, which she does at least one a week, I’m awake for over 3 hours. I tried to wait it out yesterday and she cried for 2 hours until I went in and patted her for an hour. This is becoming a problem now I’m back at work.
I literally don’t know what to do! Normally she can’t sleep if there is someone in the room. She likes to be by herself. But the night wakings this changes.
I have found a couple of times, if I take her down and we watch some tv for 45 minutes and I take her back up and do a mini bedtime routine (bottle, sing our song) she’ll go back down. I’m worried about creating a habit wake there though!
Maybe I should add, not sure if relevant, day time naps have always been pretty short. But if we are home and she’s in her cot I get an 1h30nap now (used to be 30mins). But at daycare or in the pushchair it’s max 30 mins.
Any tips on what to do would be appreciated!!
Thanks in advance for reading! My DD is an awesome nighttime sleeper generally. from 5 months she started fighting me rocking her to sleep so I tried putting her in her own cot and leaving and lo and behold she happily went to sleep. She still does that now and even waves and says good night some evenings when she’s already tired before her planned bedtime around 7. She normally sleeps 12 hours exactly in one stretch. Butttttttttt if she does wake it’s hell. She hates being rocked. She hates being in our bed. But she hates me leaving her. She wants me to pat her whilst she lays in her cot, which I do but as soon as I stop even after an hour she wakes! So if she wakes, which she does at least one a week, I’m awake for over 3 hours. I tried to wait it out yesterday and she cried for 2 hours until I went in and patted her for an hour. This is becoming a problem now I’m back at work.
I literally don’t know what to do! Normally she can’t sleep if there is someone in the room. She likes to be by herself. But the night wakings this changes.
I have found a couple of times, if I take her down and we watch some tv for 45 minutes and I take her back up and do a mini bedtime routine (bottle, sing our song) she’ll go back down. I’m worried about creating a habit wake there though!
Maybe I should add, not sure if relevant, day time naps have always been pretty short. But if we are home and she’s in her cot I get an 1h30nap now (used to be 30mins). But at daycare or in the pushchair it’s max 30 mins.
Any tips on what to do would be appreciated!!