no more buba

[MUMMYALLY08]

hi all, just wanted to share my story hoping it will make me feel a bit better getting it off my chest some more.

got my bfp last friday morning and was over the moon, i then started bleeding that night, i went to hospital to find out what was happening only to be told what i suspected, that i had miscarried.
I cried non stop for 3 days but am beginning to cope more now.
I have a daughter who is 20 months and i need to keep a level head for her sake. she hasnt been well either she has been in and out of hospital all week, found out she is allergic to penacillin and her mouth and toung(really cant spell ) swelt up.

This has been the worst week i have ever had, probs only slept about 8 hours all week.

Anyway... this whole experience has made me want a baby even more than before.
i want to start trying straight away but not sure if its ok, is there any risks involved if we were to, my hcg levels are back to normal already, i had them tested yesterday.

any advice would be greatly appreciated,

ta
xx

 

[dawny690]

Awww hun sending you huge sorry for your loss I know what your going through I suffered a mc in april this year the baby would have been due 2 weeks ago and we started trying straight away but to no avail yet and now my cycles have gone a little crazy, not saying this will happen to you but just wanted to share my experience with you. If you feel happy enough to start trying again straight away then go for it hun, you have nothing to lose. Im here if you ever want to chat xx

 

[MUMMYALLY08]

thanks dawny690, i am so sorry for your loss, i hope you get to your bubba soon, im sure you will.
i do feel ready to start again straight away, it has made me feel more determined but i dont want it to make the fun part of it into a chore.
your comment really has made me feel better so thanks
xx

 

[DiddyDons]

hi hun, im sorry to hear about your loss
I lost my little girl at 24 + 6days in jan this year and i have wanted a baby so much ever since..not to replace but i need to just feel happy again and i know a baby would very much help with that...i just have a huge longing for a living child.
I know some people who have had a mc and started trying again as soon as the bleeding stopped and "hey prestdo" they fell pregnant the month after the miscarriage...
after all you are more fertile after being pregnant.

I hope you get your bfp soon....*hugs* xxx

 

[MUMMYALLY08]

Hi diddydond, i am so so sorry for your loss, that must have been so hard, i was 5 weeks when i m/c so i cant imagine how you must have felt,
i thinnk we will start trying asap as its all i can think about, its driving me insane, its soooo frustrating that its taken away so quick.
i am the same, i am desperate to be preg again but not to replace. I am just soooo much more determined this time, i just dont want to have to feel as though i am walking on egg shells next time round.
I hope you get your baby soon hun, and wish you all the happiness in the world.
xx

 

[dawny690]

Thanks hun you lost yours at the same amount of weeks as me, mine was at 5wks too x

 

[sam76]

im so sorry i had my 2nd m/c 5 weeks ago, and i keep thinking WHY ME!! but we will all be proud parents one day xxxx take care and goodluck xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[celine]

I have no words...just that Im so sorry 4 ur losses xxx

 

[Rumpskin]

So very sorry to hear your news darling.

I have suffered two miscarriages this year, one only 4 weeks ago. I am now waiting for some blood test results.

Thinking of you x

 

[colsy]

A huge to you. I hope you start to feel better soon, and I hope that your daughter gets better soon. Re trying again ... me and OH tried again as soon as the bleeding from my m/c stopped. Some sources reckon this is fine, others say wait for first AF and still others say wait at least three months. So seems to me that nobody really knows what's best. I felt that I knew my body and that if my body wasn't ready, then nothing would happen. As it is, nothing did happen, and I am now in the 2WW after my first AF since m/c. I think you know what's best for you, your OH and your little girl. I wish you all the luck in the world and hope that everything sorts out soon.

 

[Misselle44]

I keep posting this, so sorry if it is a repeat I just had a m/c at 13 weeks. My doctor told me to track my ovulation and as soon as I ovulate my body is ready for another baby. So that is what I am going to do.

She said that they used to prefer that we wait for the first period, but that was before we had the super-high resolution ultrasounds that let us measure dates accurately. Many physicians do a dating scan at the first appointment to establish a due date, so the lmp isn't all that important.

I hope that helps, and good luck to all of us TTC!

 

[cleckner04]

I'm so sorry hun. Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you. You definately aren't alone.

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry for your loss.
I hope both you, and your daughter are feeling better soon