I have 3 beautiful boys ages (8,5,3) my two youngest have had special needs and this pregnancy has been a surprise and shock to both my husband and I. We had been discussing vasectomies and deciding if we were truly done having kids and if we should since our youngest have had developmental issues. So I'm feeling guilty? I don't if that's the right word. It's taken us a bit to wrap our heads around it all. I'm just not in that 'baby' frame of mind I guess (since we had been discussing being done having babies). Is anyone else in a similar boat? Of course, I am happy to be pregnant and would be over the moon for a girl but I just seem to be in a weird head space right now.